@Marin What kind of nitwit neurotologist says he/she does not know about migraine medication? That is ridiculous. I'm furious for you. Their specialty is in part neurology. You need to kick him/her to the curb.
Marin,
Checking in with you, how are you doing? I know we are both moms and this is difficult for anyone, but especially when you have kids to care for. Sending prayers that you are doing a bit better.