Don't feel that way. Live your life as normally as you can. You cannot judge yourself and your health based only on your T. You're a complete person with much to offer someone. Giving T any unwarranted attention is letting it run your life. Go ahead, ask someone out. Go on dates. You'll be fine. Getting out and about and getting your mind off it will only help you in the long term.
I feel the same way. I have been seriously considering starting a free T dating site. I even looked at options tonight. I just don't want us to be alone any longer then we need to. I build sites for a living. I just feel silly posting just myself on it. I wonder if even 5 people would sign up. If this really is an interest to anyone, PM me so I know I'm not the only one and I can keep everyone informed if it happens.