TBH, I am not sure that @Lipshitz was trying to post this with completely bad intentions. It was received that way however. Regardless there is an ignore button for things like this :)
@Lipshitz - and how does your post help you or anyone? @SharonBell - thank you so much for your posts. They help the people that can relate to your suffering. We love you. Post until your hearts content.
Nobody is trying to say anything hurtful to you , this is a common problem for people who have Tinnitus that don't work jobs , they don't keep busy, and all they do is sit around all day focusing on T on talk forums and the problem just keeps getting worse cause their anxiety and depression keeps increasing . People who send the type of message I sent to you is trying to help .
@Lipshitz - you may have good intensions but your making a few assumptions. Nobody is in a position to judge what someone else may be experiencing regardless of the reason. It is nice that you are attempting to help but I do not feel as if it was received as you had intended. That's because you have not walked a life time is @SharonBell shoes. We are all born different.
@Lipshitz - i say this because I was once like you. I believed happiness was a choice. You make your own destiny. It was always my belief that I could be happy no matter what happened to me …. I had everything. Exercised daily. Many great friends. Great family. You name it. Then something happened that I did not know existed. I still cannot believe what happened.
You are contradicting yourself , you told me I don't have the right to tell you how you feel , but yet your telling me you were once like me . You know nothing about me , I guarantee my T is worse than yours but the thoughts I have about it aren't like yours . When I have two stiff cocktails my T is so loud I can hear it in the car with the windows rolled down going 55 mph .