in a hypothetical situation, say i fell down the stairs and couldn't get up, My sister would look down from the top and never lend a hand. There would be me, pleading for help, while she'd look down in disgust and codemn me for yelling. Just today, she wouldn't even open the door for me because i'm 'too slow,' she said. my whole body hurts from face to feet, it is painful for me to walk, that is why i'm 'slow.'