I am not coping that well, I am 52 and have had Tinnitus for approx 20 or more years,,,,It was at a level I learned to live with just fine (From hearing loss) then approx 6 months ago I came off gabepentin for neck pain, and came off too fast as I was feeling really bad, it gave me bad anxiety and extreme ringing in my head/ears,,,all sorts of noise,,,i too tried nortripyline but only 3 days and stopped because of louder ringing, it would make me sleepy as I took before bed,,,but middle of the night really loud screaming in ears,,,,I have had head/neck trauma too a whiplash injury,,,,a year earlier,,,,i a few annoying sounds after that, but got really bad when i came off the gabapentin,,,,I am depressed with bad dark thoughts, but been fighting,,,although I am wearing down,,,I am on ativan,,,,but hope to wean off it,,,,and find something long term,,,,,however its not looking good as I am hearing so much bad about meds,,,,I also clench and grind teeth,,,,so even harder finding something that wont aggravate that problem,,,I need something but not sure what to take,,,,if i find something I will let you know