@Hudson, here's a story that you may find to be of interest ...
There's a very nice guy I've known through various tinnitus boards for some eight years now; he still posts every once in a while. This fellow and I have communicated on numerous occasions via postings and also via private messaging. He is a big fan of masking, but masking was not really getting him where he wanted to go
in the long run. I explained my thoughts to him on this matter and made some suggestions, which he rejected. He was also at one point absolutely convinced that the drug Campral was the solution to his problems. I was very skeptical and explained why. But he insisted it was working - until months later he realized it wasn't. His story of trying this and trying that, only to become increasingly frustrated, so moved me that even though he lives in a different part of the country, on two occasions when my travels took me to his home state I offered to meet with him face to face at no charge, even offering to pick up the dinner tab. He was not interested in meeting with me or hearing what I might have to say.
Well, in his post #19 in this thread
@alifalijohn seems to make light of doctors' feeling helpless. I have to tell you how helpless this fellow I'm talking about has made me feel over the years. Because had he ever taken my suggestions seriously, likely he would not still be on the boards today looking for answers.
Stephen Nagler