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    And I followed a course in mindfulness, but I still thought it was useless back then. Now I...

    And I followed a course in mindfulness, but I still thought it was useless back then. Now I fortunately know different.
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    Dankjewel, Mariam. I mostly followed treatment with a psychologist (CBT), this was key to my...

    Dankjewel, Mariam. I mostly followed treatment with a psychologist (CBT), this was key to my recovery. Also, I followed an introduction to TRT at an audiologist. And I got a lot of help online, like on this forum. ;)
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    Hi Zigs, Thanks, glad you enjoyed it. Getting better isn't a linear process. I've had several...

    Hi Zigs, Thanks, glad you enjoyed it. Getting better isn't a linear process. I've had several relapses. Try to be patient and focus on the important things in life. The earbuds that I used were not those with rubber plugs, but the ones on which you can fit a soft cushion. Those are less...
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    Tinnitus, My Dear Friend

    Hi all, In my story I forgot to add that I had greatly underestimated the effect of my behaviour. Searching on the internet, reading books about tinnitus, talking to people about tinnitus, going to a quiet place when I noticed a new sound to check whether it was actually coming from inside my...
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    Tinnitus, My Dear Friend

    I developed a new tone almost on a daily basis and it changed constantly. I could no longer concentrate on the things that mattered. It was extremely loud. I feel as if I have skipped a whole year of my life. I hereby stop my discussion with you, Autumnly. Which is probably for the best for...
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    Tinnitus, My Dear Friend

    ACT sounds very interesting. Thanks a lot for mentioning it. I will look into it. Perhaps it can help my wife (fibromyalgia / depression).
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    Tinnitus, My Dear Friend

    And how do you plan to combat something you do not have control over? There might not be a scientific breakthrough within decades. I have heard a few things about this Neuromod, but what if it is available for you and does not help you? Sure, you should keep pushing scientists to discover a...
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    Tinnitus, My Dear Friend

    So referring to tinnitus as being boiled alive is not negative to you? I'd say go sit in a bath of boiling water and see what kills you first; your tinnitus or the heat. Of course it is not a sprained finger, but being boiled till Death comes to get you is yet another extreme! Yes tinnitus can...
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    Tinnitus, My Dear Friend

    Hej der, I am very sorry that you feel this way. I just want to say that I feel for you and I hope that things get better. Life isn't easy, that's certain. I have similar nihilistic thoughts, but they do not disrupt me as much anymore. I have come to use them to my benefit. Yes, life is...
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    Tinnitus, My Dear Friend

    Unfortunately there is always a lag between science and medical care. I guess in the end everyone has no choice but to find their own way in this mess. I picked a combination of (or pieces of) CBT, TRT and mindfulness and it has helped me tremendously. Why should they compete really? It makes...
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    Tinnitus, My Dear Friend

    Of course my tinnitus has never been as severe as theirs, but it did drive me insane. There was hardly anything else I could think of or focus on. The loudness was unbearable. These were extremely dark times for me. So I get it that tinnitus can be devastating, delibitating, w/e. I have been...
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    Tinnitus, My Dear Friend

    And these positive optimistic people, they still suffer from tinnitus? If so, then I wonder what causes those people to suffer. I guess this is one of the riddles that still needs to be unraveled?
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    Tinnitus, My Dear Friend

    Hi Allen Y., Thanks for your post. Habituation means: 'decrease in responsiveness upon repeated exposure to a stimulus.' If someone 'only habituates', then, in your eyes, what changes for this person? In mine it is the negative reaction that causes the person with tinnitus to suffer. Thus if...
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    Tinnitus, My Dear Friend

    I do not know whether the bullet points above are referring to what Jastreboff actually states in his book or that is derived from my posts. In the latter case, all that I have said about TRT is merely my interpretation of it. It might not be completely in line with TRT.
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    Tinnitus, My Dear Friend

    About false hope. If something you try does not bring relief, then that can bring disappointment. But there is only disappointment if you had expectations. In the beginning I was often disappointed. That cost me a lot of energy. But then I started to manage my expectations. I tried and did my...