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  1. Tom Okay

    Having a rough day w. self-blame.I want to be kind to myself but it’s hard when I feel I messed...

    Having a rough day w. self-blame.I want to be kind to myself but it’s hard when I feel I messed up.Going to bed now.Grateful for this space.
  2. Tom Okay

    Just came home from some hours spent with an old friend. Felt like T was gone. Now I’m home and...

    Just came home from some hours spent with an old friend. Felt like T was gone. Now I’m home and T is back kind of loud. Grateful for friends
  3. Tom Okay

    Some days I can forget about it for several hours even half days! And then moments later it...

    Some days I can forget about it for several hours even half days! And then moments later it stresses me out and makes me worry.
  4. Tom Okay

    Having a bad day today and it makes me worry a bit – and that makes the day even worse. Let me...

    Having a bad day today and it makes me worry a bit – and that makes the day even worse. Let me try to relax a little, okay?
  5. Tom Okay

    I wouldn’t mind if family members sometimes asked how I’m doing. When I don’t complain they...

    I wouldn’t mind if family members sometimes asked how I’m doing. When I don’t complain they think I have been cured? Or maybe afraid to ask.
  6. Tom Okay

    At music camp for kids. It’s all acoustic but I wear ear plugs. It’s fine but I’m bit sad to...

    At music camp for kids. It’s all acoustic but I wear ear plugs. It’s fine but I’m bit sad to hear loud T on top of the kids’ beautiful music
  7. Tom Okay

    @Mo8409 Mild high pitch T since I was a teenager (loud concerts, I think). Now, 30 years later...

    @Mo8409 Mild high pitch T since I was a teenager (loud concerts, I think). Now, 30 years later, sudden severe increase (due to loud sound exposure and stress, I think).
  8. Tom Okay

    Yup, I know that feeling very well. I remind myself of recent good days and find hope in that...

    Yup, I know that feeling very well. I remind myself of recent good days and find hope in that there will be more of those easier and peaceful days.
  9. Tom Okay

    Will I get just one day without being annoyed with my T? I know asking that question might be...

    Will I get just one day without being annoyed with my T? I know asking that question might be counter productive to my wish come true.
  10. Tom Okay

    Tinnitus Research Initiative (TRI) 2023 Conference

    Great news, @Hazel! I sent a little too and I hope you’ll get the expenses covered. Have a good time and thanks for going to the conference on our behalf — and even giving a talk!
  11. Tom Okay

    Had a quiet T day being busy with practical matters. Felt great! Now I’m taking a well deserved...

    Had a quiet T day being busy with practical matters. Felt great! Now I’m taking a well deserved break and T is very loud!!! (I’ll be okay).
  12. Tom Okay

    Thinking about you all and wishing you a good night or day, where ever you are. I am having hard...

    Thinking about you all and wishing you a good night or day, where ever you are. I am having hard days here and hope for better day tomorrow.
  13. Tom Okay

    Gone through months of stress and was hoping for a relief but now life is a living nightmare. T...

    Gone through months of stress and was hoping for a relief but now life is a living nightmare. T on top, of course, and I feel so much worry.
  14. Tom Okay

    Still have increased loudness due to the cold I got. It’s driving me bonkers.

    Still have increased loudness due to the cold I got. It’s driving me bonkers.
  15. Tom Okay

    Got a bad cold two days ago and now I have stuffed and painful ears. T is loud and I can’t...

    Got a bad cold two days ago and now I have stuffed and painful ears. T is loud and I can’t sleep. Trying to calm myself down. Wish me luck
  16. Tom Okay

    But I got a bit sad by the fact that I could hear my T over the music though. Don’t need those...

    But I got a bit sad by the fact that I could hear my T over the music though. Don’t need those extra high pitch violins!!
  17. Tom Okay

    Took my tinnitus to the symphony tonight. I wore my musician’s earplugs -25 dB and enjoyed most...

    Took my tinnitus to the symphony tonight. I wore my musician’s earplugs -25 dB and enjoyed most of the concert.
  18. Tom Okay

    By the way, @Joe Cuber , I’ve mastered the beginner’s method of solving of the 3x3x3 cube! I’m...

    By the way, @Joe Cuber , I’ve mastered the beginner’s method of solving of the 3x3x3 cube! I’m still pretty slow (1m33s AO100) but it’s great fun for me :-)
  19. Tom Okay

    Thanks @Joe Cuber for your kind encouragement. I’m looking forward to better days that will come...

    Thanks @Joe Cuber for your kind encouragement. I’m looking forward to better days that will come my way.
  20. Tom Okay

    So much stress and so many worries in my life at the moment makes it very hard to handle...

    So much stress and so many worries in my life at the moment makes it very hard to handle tinnitus also. I’m searching high and low for hope.
  21. Tom Okay

    48

    48
  22. Tom Okay

    Thanks, I need a little support today!

    Thanks, I need a little support today!
  23. Tom Okay

    My family is compassionate about my troubles but still I try not to bother them too much with...

    My family is compassionate about my troubles but still I try not to bother them too much with complaining. So I’m grateful for this space.
  24. Tom Okay

    I have decided not to go. I don’t think I will enjoy it with hearing protection at the moment...

    I have decided not to go. I don’t think I will enjoy it with hearing protection at the moment. It’s Aphex Twin @Strawberryblonde . I will have listening party at home at moderate levels on the day :)
  25. Tom Okay

    Aw man my all time favorite band is coming to town this summer. But it’s loud electronic music...

    Aw man my all time favorite band is coming to town this summer. But it’s loud electronic music and I’m afraid it would worsen my tinnitus.
  26. Tom Okay

    I have had a cold for some days now. Louder than usual T + my hearing seems down a little. I...

    I have had a cold for some days now. Louder than usual T + my hearing seems down a little. I keep asking my family to repeat what they say:)
  27. Tom Okay

    It’s hard not letting bad days bring me down but reading supporting posts here helps a lot...

    It’s hard not letting bad days bring me down but reading supporting posts here helps a lot. :thankful:
  28. Tom Okay

    I had a couple of really good days this week – but yesterday and today are pretty bad.

    I had a couple of really good days this week – but yesterday and today are pretty bad.
  29. Tom Okay

    I have been noticing that it changes once or twice a day @Joe Cuber . I have yet to be able to...

    I have been noticing that it changes once or twice a day @Joe Cuber . I have yet to be able to find a predictable pattern... so I'm getting used to it being random --- and accepting that.
  30. Tom Okay

    And my diet hasn’t been the best since my T got worse (eating lots of Halloween candy both...

    And my diet hasn’t been the best since my T got worse (eating lots of Halloween candy both before, on and after Halloween :D). Oh well, I can work on how I handle the factors above. So I’m hopeful for many good days to come my way.
  31. Tom Okay

    Hi @Joe Cuber That’s a good question. I think wrong posture and too much screen time could be a...

    Hi @Joe Cuber That’s a good question. I think wrong posture and too much screen time could be a factor. But most of all, I think it’s my focus of attention and when family or work situations stress me out.
  32. Tom Okay

    I wish my T was more predictable. I can have a quiet moment followed by full blast, followed by...

    I wish my T was more predictable. I can have a quiet moment followed by full blast, followed by moderate levels.
  33. Tom Okay

    Tinnitus for 30 Years — Recently Noticing It More (Unexpected Sound Exposures / Emotional Stress)

    Hi @Joe Cuber, I just wanted to say hi and thank you for replying to this post back in August. Together with other posts here, it's been a great help for me. I'm doing better now. I get better sleep and don't wake up freaking out like I did in the first days. I still spend a little too much...
  34. Tom Okay

    Tinnitus for 30 Years — Recently Noticing It More (Unexpected Sound Exposures / Emotional Stress)

    I guess I was wrong. Several sources online mention that stress can cause both temporary and permanent hearing loss due to changes in blood flow caused by the stress response.
  35. Tom Okay

    Tinnitus for 30 Years — Recently Noticing It More (Unexpected Sound Exposures / Emotional Stress)

    Both good questions I'd like answered too :-) My spike or increased tinnitus has not returned to the previous moderate level that I was used for many years. It's been a little over a month now with the increased levels and I have been trying to not stress out so much and I have been doing mild...
  36. Tom Okay

    In the middle of the forest there’s an unexpected clearing which can only be found by those who...

    In the middle of the forest there’s an unexpected clearing which can only be found by those who have gotten lost. --- Tomas Tranströmer
  37. Tom Okay

    Uplifting Quotes and Words

    In the middle of the forest there’s an unexpected clearing which can only be found by those who have gotten lost. — Tomas Tranströmer
  38. Tom Okay

    I think I have downloaded and subscribed to way too many soundscape apps this month :D I really...

    I think I have downloaded and subscribed to way too many soundscape apps this month :D I really enjoy listening to them---so $ well spent!
  39. Tom Okay

    Really enjoyed biking in the windy autumn weather today. Mostly masked my louder tinnitus...

    Really enjoyed biking in the windy autumn weather today. Mostly masked my louder tinnitus. :thumbs up:
  40. Tom Okay

    Spent most of the day in noisy environments (traffic, kids, etc.) and it made me much more tired...

    Spent most of the day in noisy environments (traffic, kids, etc.) and it made me much more tired than usual plus T is pretty annoying.
  41. Tom Okay

    I don’t want to jinx it but today there were a couple of 30 minute periods where I didn’t notice...

    I don’t want to jinx it but today there were a couple of 30 minute periods where I didn’t notice and didn’t think about it.
  42. Tom Okay

    Uplifting Quotes and Words

    From my notebook. Some quotes that help me from time to time: The master has failed more times than the beginner has even tried. Walking with a friend in the dark is better than walking alone in the light. -- Helen Keller You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months...
  43. Tom Okay

    When I wake up in the morning, it's still the first thing I hear :( On the bright side, I get...

    When I wake up in the morning, it's still the first thing I hear :( On the bright side, I get out of bed real fast to put the kettle on :)
  44. Tom Okay

    Have had some better days with easier concentration at work & at home. Evenings and nights are...

    Have had some better days with easier concentration at work & at home. Evenings and nights are tricky for me (major worries and thinking).
  45. Tom Okay

    Hot Sauce — Ototoxic?

    Hey @El BUZZ! I’m a hot sauce fan too. Did you find any more information on whether spicy food is to be avoided? I mean, I never experienced any issues with hot sauce or wasabi and my tinnitus before. I have had mild tinnitus for many years, but now that my tinnitus has gotten much worse, I am...
  46. Tom Okay

    @Steph1710 Yeah, it was really tough last night and in the early morning too. I’m interested in...

    @Steph1710 Yeah, it was really tough last night and in the early morning too. I’m interested in learning getting through the night without freaking myself out.
  47. Tom Okay

    @Joe Cuber Only a little have I tried with ambient sounds. I don’t want to bother my wife and...

    @Joe Cuber Only a little have I tried with ambient sounds. I don’t want to bother my wife and child with the sounds (even if it might help them get to sleep too, I guess, if it’s nature sounds). I wonder if it’s okay to use earbuds at very low volume. I haven’t taken sleeping aids yet, but if I...
  48. Tom Okay

    Had a pretty good and optimistic day going about my business at work and visiting family. Now...

    Had a pretty good and optimistic day going about my business at work and visiting family. Now it’s bedtime … aaand I’m struggling again.
  49. Tom Okay

    Changed my username from coffee_and_tea to @Tom Okay because I’ll be okay. I might not be quite...

    Changed my username from coffee_and_tea to @Tom Okay because I’ll be okay. I might not be quite okay right now, but I’ll be okay.
  50. Tom Okay

    Woke up only twice last night and this morning was somewhat peaceful for me. Tinnitus still...

    Woke up only twice last night and this morning was somewhat peaceful for me. Tinnitus still louder than ever before though.
  51. Tom Okay

    Tinnitus for 30 Years — Recently Noticing It More (Unexpected Sound Exposures / Emotional Stress)

    Thanks Joe! I appreciated very much reading about your experiences which sound similar to mine and it gives me hope that my tinnitus will also be easier to cope with for me. I must admit that the past weeks have been pretty rough here. It's surprising to me how much one's stress level can...
  52. Tom Okay

    Headache's gone, yay! --- but I still woke up 4 times last night and was semi-freaking out about...

    Headache's gone, yay! --- but I still woke up 4 times last night and was semi-freaking out about the increased level of my tinnitus.
  53. Tom Okay

    Louder Tinnitus After Vaping Synthetic Nicotine

    I don’t have experience from vaping. But from my experience drinking alcohol makes my tinnitus worse. I have always been thinking it was dehydration but I often also seem to get in a bad mood the night and day after drinking which doesn’t help on my tinnitus either :) Drinking only gives a very...
  54. Tom Okay

    Oh boy, it was a difficult night sleeping — and the headache didn’t make it easier.

    Oh boy, it was a difficult night sleeping — and the headache didn’t make it easier.
  55. Tom Okay

    Today, I'm seeing some of my best old friends. Looking forward to that and maybe it'll make me...

    Today, I'm seeing some of my best old friends. Looking forward to that and maybe it'll make me forget my increased tinnitus for a while! :-)
  56. Tom Okay

    Taking a walk and maybe getting an ice cream.

    Taking a walk and maybe getting an ice cream.
  57. Tom Okay

    Tinnitus for 30 Years — Recently Noticing It More (Unexpected Sound Exposures / Emotional Stress)

    Update since the other day: After some days of poor sleep and constant worrying, I called my ear doctor's office and explained (well, I broke down on the phone, to be honest) and they said I couldn't go on like that for a whole month until my appointment and offered an examination already...
  58. Tom Okay

    I'm a bit worried about increased tinnitus and different feeling in my right ear. Keeping my...

    I'm a bit worried about increased tinnitus and different feeling in my right ear. Keeping my hopes up, though.
  59. Tom Okay

    Tinnitus for 30 Years — Recently Noticing It More (Unexpected Sound Exposures / Emotional Stress)

    Hello everyone, my name is Thomas. I guess I have been living with tinnitus since I was around 18 years old when I noticed it first. That's for 30 years now. I think my tinnitus was caused by loud sound exposures during concerts and playing with fireworks (two things I really loved when I was a...