So would you say CBT is what put an end to your anxiety and panic?
I'm in the same boat.
Having to rehabituate with a history of anxiety, OCD, and probable PTSD.
Want to avoid meds.
Hi Deb,
To be honest, CBT was only one tool in the toolkit, so to speak. In learning to live with and ultimately triumph over anxiety, there were several things that helped me succeed:
1. Learning what anxiety is and what causes it (i.e. understanding the fight or flight response and the effects it has on the body). Getting a detached, rational view of the mechanics of anxiety was essential for me.
2. A very supportive partner. In the early days when I was struggling and being overcome by anxiety, my spouse would very rationally and lovingly promise me that everything would eventually sort itself out. He believed in me when I couldn't and that saw me through for several dark months.
3. Seeing an anxiety counselor. I was fortunate enough to see a good therapist who specialized in anxiety. Talking to a former sufferer who was very knowledgeable helped me to believe the facts about anxiety. (In the beginning I was stubborn and wouldn't want to believe the physical manifestations of panic attacks were anxiety-caused; I thought I had some scary disease.)
4. An insistence on handling anxiety without medication. For me, medication seemed like a bandaid and not a true healing. I said, "My brain got me into this and my brain can get me out!" Lol, it took about 2 1/2 years before I felt out of the woods so I would now say that if medication gives you a reprieve and you need a break then by all means take a break chemically if you want. All along, though, is the goal of understanding and therefore outsmarting anxiety.
I was introduced to CBT when my tinnitus got louder after the first Pfizer shot. CBT helped me to not go down the path of returning to anxiety attacks on account of louder tinnitus. If you can separate negative thoughts from the sound in your head then you will be well primed to habituate.
As we get older and have more and more life experiences (some of which are deeply challenging and some unwelcome and permanent, like tinnitus), we will need the skills that support the acceptance that "you can't control what has happened to you but you can control your reaction to it."
Sorry for such a long reply. I care a lot about my fellow anxiety sufferers and am always willing to share my experiences in the hopes that it might help.
All the best!