Thank you for coming back
@Ed209,
and thank you for correcting my assumptions by the way.
I am extremely interested in the fact that your improvement has been a result of your psychological adjustment.
Short of a 'cure' or a drug, this is really the arena where we win or lose.
I can tell you now that I am well on my way.
Nobody, other than my very perceptive misus, ever suggested to me that the way to devise the right psychology, was in fact to expect hiss, to expect noise, to defuse the whole terrible dilemma by expecting it (accepting it) and consequently failing to be de-railed by it!
I am a pro traditional jazz trombonist, (since 1962) and still 'at it'.
I do earplug my damaged left ear (facing the band) but leave the right ear open.
Jazz, being a spontaneous music, I need to hear the other instruments to respond well.
It's working for me.
Incidentally, I spent last evening walking around London's Charing Cross Road, and my only 'fingers in ears' moments coincided with Police and Ambulance alarms, the noise of which is bloody criminal, and over the top IMHO.
Thanks for your reply and for being an encouragement to everybody.
Jazzer x