I have hissing. Your mind should eventually see it as background noise. Thats what is going on with me. But, it has taken a year for that to start to happen. But I know, it is horrible. I am lucky as far as sleeping because I have never been a light sleeper. Watching TV with the hiss is like having a fan or something running while watching it. But that is kind of how you have think of it, like back ground noise. Also, I always would have the closed caption on before I had T, and I still keep it on which I find oddly helps because I also concentrate on the words as well as the TV sound, which deflects thinking of the hiss.This is a new one for me and it's driving me crazy, it's like my whole head is sizzling.
I have major trouble concentrating, sleeping, watching TV.....
Don't know what to do?
Would like to hear how others cope?
For 40 years my right ear has hissed and my left one has whistled. When I get around loud sounds, the next day and for weeks and months afterward, the hiss changes to a whistle, and the whistling ear changes to a scream.
On this forum I learned to NOT gauge or measure my T.
Instead, I measure my response. So, at all cost, I do NOT gauge, compare, describe, or react to the T. I started measuring my responses only. And in a few weeks the T drifted away.
You see, after a while it gets boring measuring your response. And by not measuring the T, you're training yourself to ignore it I guess. I don't know exactly how this works but it works.
I've tried lots of ways of dealing with T in 40 years, as you can imagine. But this has me feeling normal, and stressless again. And the T is gone, unless I'm talking about it. Like now. hehe
Before I started doing this technique, bedtime was awful. And I'd get up in the morning and 2 seconds later after awakening, the T came rushing in and I'd get out of bed all panicky feeling. Not anymore.I'll be honest I never really thought of that before. While I am hoping that mine does't get to the level of a scream (You are one tough man my friend). That is a very good point. Instead of trying to gauge it. As you said...just measure your response and if you catch yourself measuring it just say:
"Nope, I'm not going to measure my T"....or something like that. Haha I guess you sort of described it better up top.
I myself have been better with trying to not do that myself. I guess the only time I "gauge it" or sort of monitor it is when I'm trying to sleep. I can usually not do it during the day, because I try and stay busy or have something that catches my attention.
Do you do the same thing when you sleep?
Or just sort of go...welll theres my T? Oh well! ...ZZZZZzzzzzz
Yes, my T is a dreadful irritating hiss. It is only in my right ear and was triggerd by junior school children on my bus! But i do have some days when my ear is normal with no sound what so ever, strange. If i am lucky i will get as much as two days of normality and i forget about T altogether. Pure joy! But that said I know it will always be back. It has followed this pattern for the last four and half years. H as well, just another problem to deal with. Will life ever be the same again? ( It's an audible ball and chain)
Can you make the T higher when you press your neck, turn your head into the furthest position possible (right / left) ?@Codaz good point regarding the neck. I think alot of my T stems from there.