Will this be safe? I'll be wearing headphones most of the day and making calls
Thats about 120 hours of headphone usage in 3 weeks...thats a lot for someone who already has strained ear(s).
Do you have the option to quit daily? You could see how your ear/s feel after a days work. If you feel pressure or your t is aggravated then I would reconsider going on. I understand that you need the money. I would just be careful, people do mistakes all the time when it comes to protecting their hearing and then they regret it for a long time.
Personally, If my T was bearable then I'd avoid such risks, knowing that a worsened T / hearing can really destroy your life (speaking from experience)
This is the only way you'll habituate to T, not by rolling in self-pity and letting T control your life and preventing you from doing things. But then again you should always protect yourself from unreasonable levels of sounds. Just use your head
Correct. I think that it's all a matter of volume. Keep it low and there's no reason for damage to happen.But some people here still listen to music daily with headphones or even use earbuds to mask their tinnitus with rainsounds. My T doesn't really get aggrevated by sounds and my audiogram is perfect. I have no hearing loss whatsoever
Since you cleared that up. You have a mild T and perfect hearing. So I guess you can go for it.
You should be careful with such general statements on this board...There are many people here, who dont have a baby T like yours. Some people have the worst of all (reactive) Ts, extreme H and can't do all those things you're able to do.
Consider yourself lucky.
And my statement isn't generalizing everyones condition. I'm just stating facts.
Usually, call center jobs also involve a lot of shouting and swearing.Well, sound is sound and headphones are pretty bad...There's people I know who got tinnitus by having jobs in call centres. I used to play a lot of xbox online, so a lot of shouting and swearing, which I'm partly blaming my tinnitus on.
Thats a contradiction...and these are not facts.
You're saying "Dont let T and self pity control your life". Well let me tell you again, that there are people who dont have a say in that matter because they have an unbearable T and H, which stop them from having a normal life.Not because they are weak or miserable, but because they're simply fu***.
And you dont seem to know that side of the coin. (how could you?)
And at what point did I write that self-pity is helpful?
Its easy talking being on the high horse.
I've been exactly in your situation. I had a normal T for more than 7 years, it took me more than a year to habituate.
I could do all the things you can do with the T.
Then I got the extremest of the extreme T. More than deep 5-6 sounds, fast and loud as a washing machine. Hyperacusis (the old high T sounds are still there). I cant even listen to music. I had to give up everything.
The T is so extreme that you can't habituate to it. And there are some people on this board who are im the same position. So excuse me if I get agitated when I read such absolute statments as yours.
Your statment is not wrong, but these "facts" do not apply to everyone with T.
But good for you, I guess.
I worked some tech support jobs with headsets before I had T; I do not know if it was a factor, but I would not take that kind of work again if I could possibly avoid it, for a variety of reasons. These jobs tend to be extremely high stress for a whole set of reasons, and I personally would be a lot happier working a customer service job at the mall, or doing dishes at a restaurant, than I would to be on a headset all day again. (I have done mall jobs and dishwasher jobs, too, and while they are overall a lot more stressful than what I do now as a web software engineer, they were definitely less so than any of the three call center jobs I've had).Will this be safe? I'll be wearing headphones most of the day and making calls
Alright Alright I'm not looking for a fight. I'm sorry for you that you are in that certain position, and I really hope things will get better. But there is nothing wrong with being a bit more positive..
And yet there are people who have posted in this very forum that they hear multiple, unpleasant, high frequency sounds, at a volume which is clearly unmaskable and clearly perceivable over jet engines and Niagara Falls, who none the less feel that they are habituated to the sound.The T is so extreme that you can't habituate to it. And there are some people on this board who are im the same position.
However, the statement that "tinnitus volume is all that matters, and there is a level of volume which it is not possible for anyone to habituate to", is just wrong -- because people have done it!
To what extent have you actually, you know, tried this stuff?But let it go, I read many of your posts and were not gonna be on the same page about mindfullness (mildfullness ?) and habituation. I wish you'd be right though
I think what you're bumping in to here, is something I've noticed a lot: some posters on here write in such bleak, stark and frankly distorted, negative ways, that it is obvious to someone reading them that the way in which they are consciously and willfully thinking is literally making them feel worse. However, having been in that state myself, it's very difficult for someone to point this out without the person reading it as "your problems are in your head and they will go away if you can just look on the sunny side!" Obviously that's not true, but it's also not what you're trying to communicate, so, it's just difficult.
I have a larger and larger number of people on ignore here, because I know that I don't benefit from consuming negativity, and if I am incapable of communicating with people stuck in that mode in a way which is beneficial to them, then, what's the point? Wearing rose colored glasses is overall not a great strategy for me to approach the broader world with, but it has its utility.But reading these bleak, stark and dark posts really upsets me because I know when I was reading them I felt worse. I didn't want to read them nor did I want write negatively on this forum. ..
Hi Lisa,I completely agree with what you've posted here! I've been there too! The dark days where nothing or no one could console me. I would have none of it. My life was over, I was sure of it. But magically enough my therapist really helped me with some CBT techniques and just overall positive thinking. It put everything much more into perspective. But reading these bleak, stark and dark posts really upsets me because I know when I was reading them I felt worse. I didn't want to read them nor did I want write negatively on this forum. I know that it is a part of this forum to support each other, and by not telling how you feel you can't really create a support group. But some posters really overdo it and crush all the hope some people have. I mean isn't hope of a better life the thing that keeps us going? And reading positive encouragements and stories really helped me get through the day. They gave me hope. And I know it's hard to make people who are really miserable see that there is also another way to it..
I completely agree with what you've posted here! I've been there too! The dark days where nothing or no one could console me. I would have none of it. My life was over, I was sure of it. But magically enough my therapist really helped me with some CBT techniques and just overall positive thinking. It put everything much more into perspective. But reading these bleak, stark and dark posts really upsets me because I know when I was reading them I felt worse. I didn't want to read them nor did I want write negatively on this forum. I know that it is a part of this forum to support each other, and by not telling how you feel you can't really create a support group. But some posters really overdo it and crush all the hope some people have. I mean isn't hope of a better life the thing that keeps us going? And reading positive encouragements and stories really helped me get through the day. They gave me hope. And I know it's hard to make people who are really miserable see that there is also another way to it..
It seems she wanted reassurances, not doubts. Is that so unusual?I don't understand then..why are you here asking if you only want answers that make you feel good? Don't you want to hear both sides to make an informed decision?
It seems she wanted reassurances, not doubts. Is that so unusual?