How did you get to where you're at if you don't mind me asking?
Very, very bad luck. The kind of bad luck where the rarity can't be quantified because I've never met someone similar.
Basically, I have Sjogren's Syndrome as a core systemic autoimmune disease. So, on a daily basis, my body thinks my own healthy tissue are invaders.
In 2019, the disease spread entirely to my ears. Essentially, I have developed progressive, permanent damage as my immune system attacks (likely my cochlea or nerves) every day. Medications help
some to stabilize the ongoing destruction, but nothing regenerates the damage that's already been done. My LDLs are in the 10-20 dB range, and even then, I can only sustain it for a little bit before I am prone to setbacks from over exertion.
I have lost everything and died. I have 10/10 hyperacusis (I live in a basically a sound proof home with earmuffs on 24/7). I can't talk, other than very light whispering. In fact, I've developed a small slur on my 's' sounds because I subconsciously started emphasizing them less, due to my hyperacusis. I haven't spoken in a normal volume or left my home (other than on extremely rare occasions like getting vaccinated and getting a test done) in well over a year.
My wife abandoned me too, and instead of taking the time to do it out of love (i.e. lots of planning, a separation trial, etc.), she chose the route of "I went camping with your googly-eyed, POS cousin, had an epiphany on the drive home, and determined that you suck and deserve it." To this day, she thinks she's the victim in the divorce because I shot for 50/50 of the settlement.
Here's my advice: Don't be me.
Thanks for asking though; I sincerely do appreciate you taking an interest. You now know more about Sjogren's than my ex did.