Document everything! As best as you can remember, jot down the date, time, and context of what you did in the days leading up to and after the onset of T. Note down any other symptoms and/or conditions you have or have been experiencing with dates as you remember. Perhaps it was something you ate, a drug you took, or a loud venue you frequented.
In other words, tell a story to the doctor, don't just tell him/her what is wrong with you. The story will help your doctor determine the likely cause of your T. If your doctor interrupts you then you must insist that you finish the story. I would recommend condensing the story to about a minute as to not annoy the doctor into thinking that you're just rambling.
Practically, I would recommended the following separate documents:
- Symptoms
- List your symptoms and when they started
- Be somewhat descriptive in what exactly the sensation/feeling is and where it is
- Timeline of Events
- This is a detailed "story"
- If you can remember what happened on which day, use bullet points and indents to document what happened, how you were feeling, how you reacted, etc.
- Bold any event that you find to be critical (e.g. On May 3, I went out to a concert with friends and my ears were ringing when I went to sleep. However in the morning the ringing was still there). This will allow you to craft your 1 min. elevator speech later
- Tests/Procedures Done So Far
- Ex: MRI (date) - came out normal
- Ex: Blood test (date) - all normal levels
- Ex: Lyme test (date) - negative
- Just bullet them
- Suspicions as to Cause
- Here list your suspicions along with a sub-bullet for why you think it could be a cause (e.g. ototoxicity because I took 10 days of a known ototoxic antibiotic?, TMJ?, vestibular neuritis?, Meneire's?, etc.).
- This can be based on your own independent research, which you can take to the doc and have him/her confirm or deny.
- Future Tests
- List tests that you think you might need and why (e.g. MRI to rule out acoustic neuroma, CT scan to test for any ossicle malformations, etc.)
- Courses of Action
- Here you can speculate on what to do (e.g. wait it out for a week or so, continue on with certain medication, etc.)
I have found #1 and #3 to be particularly helpful with doctors because they can look over it before they come in and talk to you, giving you more time to go over your story (and detailed timeline if you have the time). From there the doc will examine you and give you a potential diagnosis. Finally, you can take out documents 4-5 and the doc can eliminate any other suspicions or refer you to another specialist if a suspicion is outside the doctor's expertise.
Finally, remember that YOU KNOW YOUR OWN BODY BETTER THAN ANYONE ELSE! Don't ever forget this. If you
know that something is wrong, then don't take any statement from a medical professional to the tune of "there's nothing wrong with you, you're fine." Tell them that you know your body and that something just isn't right.