The basis of CBT is acceptance. Sure, let's just accept not being able to concentrate, not being able to sleep.
They are setting a paradigm that being bothered by tinnitus is our fault for not accepting it. Like it is a form of maladjustment.
Martin Luther King Jr. had something to say about the psychological concept of maladjustment.
Look, as long as I am on this forum, I am going to wreck any and all assholes that come here peddling this nonsense. We cannot have a bunch of quack psychologists running around claiming that the distress that tinnitus causes is somehow overcomable by accepting it.
The logical outcome is that it is our fault if it bothers us. That's not just wrong, but it is evil.
This quackery is pushed by the BTA:
https://www.tinnitus.org.uk/tinnitus-and-cognitive-behavioural-therapy-cbt
Thank you
@David for helping promote the idea that tinnitus distress is our fault.
God help us.
They want us to accept the unacceptable, so they can wash their hands of spending money on a real treatment.
Personally, I find the whole notion behind CBT insulting to my intelligence.
My tinnitus volume is not going to lower, just because some person sitting across the table feeds me some feel good, scripted BS, while charging me couple hundred dollars per session.
I know what I have and I'm never accepting this (or submitting to it, or calling it my friend... etc)
That is just insulting.
Period.
But as long as we have people from our own ranks preaching about the virtues of these quack solutions, our plight for a real treatment will not be taken seriously.
We need to think outside the box and we need to think about what kind of messages we are sending to the outside world.
It does seem, that the tinnitus community is very slowly starting to wake up and the tone is starting to change towards demanding
real treatment options, but this awakening should have happened some 30 ****** years ago!!
If that were the case, I'm 100% convinced, that we would have the cure by now.
Sadly quacks like Jastreboff and the gang managed to convince lot of people, that all they really need is a bit of an attitude adjustment.
We are not lesser people or second class citizens.
Most of us have been paying into the health care system for bigger part of our lives without a complaint.
But we now need that the system gives us something in return.
And finally a message to those of you who are preaching that
everyone can habituate to their tinnitus:
Look... Your intentions might be good, but do us a big favour.
Would you kindly just shut your mouths already and stop throwing the rest of us real sufferers under the bus with your lies and misinformation?
Thank you so much.