If I didn't excercise, eat right, and do my Cognitive exercises, I'd go back to some loud irritating sounds. I first discovered masking and Cognitive therapy a few years ago with great success. It's crazy how it works so well (for me). See, I believe it's a waste of time trying to ignore T, or self talk my way out of this. I don't think if I had a broken foot I could ignore it or say, "I'll walk on it anyway."
I like to take matters in my own hand. When I did, my T volume went down.
When my T intrudes into my busy activities, I do a few days of ACTIVE LISTENING. The word here is Active.
Here's how it goes.
For a 1/2 hour, I dedicate my brain and ears to listening for silence beyond my T.
It's a total commitment to listening for silence. The idea is to force my brain to listen for silence, and then in the hours of everyday activities, hopefully it is at some level still doing. It must be, because it works.
Again, total commitment. I believe every act is part of the 'treatment.'
1. Find a time when the house is quiet.
2. Put a chair in the middle of a quiet room.
3. Have a clock handy so thoughts of time don't creep into my head.
4. Sit down, relax, clear my mind. No intrusive thoughts.
5. Listen for silence beyond the T.
6. Of course the T is right there, but I listen hard beyond it, around it, over it, and I don't take a break, I don't think of the T, I keep listening to find silence, I don't curse the T, I use it to measure silence. I stare at any object in the room while I do this. (If I close my eyes I get sleepy) I keep listening.
I ran this by a psychologist friend, she said, "Yup."
It's not easy to keep this up for a half hour. It makes a big difference for me.
I always say not to measure the T, but measure the response. Example of how well this exercise works, yesterday, amazingly I only noticed myself responding to my T twice. This is nothing short of a miracle. I will tell you about my responses, it's important that I do. I was in the car and I heard my T, my response was, "Yes, I usually hear it in the car." I don't think this went on for more than a minute. Later at night, I was watching the Olympics on TV. I responded to my T then too, I thought, "I don't remember hearing my T the last time I watched the opening ceremonies."
That's it. That was a good day.