No ones saying not to protect your ears. That would be incredibly stupid and goes without saying. However, you also have to be careful about what you read (on forums in particular) and how it starts affecting your everyday behaviour. I say this because I see so many posts that take protection too far. It does start to get into your head if you're reading some of this stuff regularly. At one point - probably after 4 months or so of being a member here - I was almost scared to leave the house in case a lorry passed me; had my decibel meter out in shopping malls; avoided invitations from friends to go out for a few drinks, etc. Once the seed of doubt is planted deep enough (if you read too much) you'll start to withdraw from life, and your behaviour can and will become phobic. It is a real risk.
I've read stories of people not leaving the house without ear muffs. This is when it gets ridiculous, and it's not a behaviour I'd want others to feel they also need to do; so they don't get damaged. It's a horrible mindset and I never want to go back there. I would say I was becoming phonophobic which I'd say a lot of people on here are, and they are advising others to copy their traits. It's unhealthy.
The problem with having sufferers all in one place is that it amplifies the fear expenentially. People start to bounce off each other.
I started to feel great once I took a break from here and stopped reading about tinnitus. My life is creeping in the right direction once more, and my fear of sound has improved massively (along with my quality of life). My journey isn't over yet, but occasionally when I come back here, I see all the same old posts and nobody seems to have improved on their situation. It is still mainly posts about avoiding everything under the sun: otherwise your tinnitus will get worse etc.
Enjoy your lives, and protect your ears when necessary.
I've read stories of people not leaving the house without ear muffs. This is when it gets ridiculous, and it's not a behaviour I'd want others to feel they also need to do; so they don't get damaged. It's a horrible mindset and I never want to go back there. I would say I was becoming phonophobic which I'd say a lot of people on here are, and they are advising others to copy their traits. It's unhealthy.
The problem with having sufferers all in one place is that it amplifies the fear expenentially. People start to bounce off each other.
I started to feel great once I took a break from here and stopped reading about tinnitus. My life is creeping in the right direction once more, and my fear of sound has improved massively (along with my quality of life). My journey isn't over yet, but occasionally when I come back here, I see all the same old posts and nobody seems to have improved on their situation. It is still mainly posts about avoiding everything under the sun: otherwise your tinnitus will get worse etc.
Enjoy your lives, and protect your ears when necessary.