But you have said previously that logging into Tinnitus Talk and posting is proof that a person's tinnitus is not
Despite me saying you were placed on ignore I haven't done so as yet. Although we have crossed swords occasionally I do like some of the things you have to say. Again, my words are taken out of context and for the last time I will explain what I mean and hope it is not misconstrued.
I have never said if a person logs onto this forum or any other that it is proof their tinnitus is not debilitating. I am saying a person with debilitating tinnitus which is sustained 24/7, their mental and emotional wellbeing will be adversely affected and thus, they will find it increasingly difficult to post regularly on an internet forum. In addition to this they will find it difficult to work, attend college or University etc for the reasons I've explained.
A person can have debilitating tinnitus but not necessarily all of the time and therefore, they are able to log onto internet forum and post. When the tinnitus is at a heightened state of intrusiveness and those have endured this will know what I mean, the last place they want to be is in front of a computer.
If a person is able to work, attend school, college etc regularly, I do not consider them to have severe debilitating tinnitus 24/7. I am not saying they will not experience periods where the tinnitus is problematic. Most people with severe debilitating tinnitus 24/7 will usually be under the care of a Hearing Therapist, Audiologist, ENT doctor or GP. They will be having some form of treatment either: Counselling, sound therapy, medication or a combination of all three because of the way the tinnitus will affect their mental and emotional wellbeing. Under such dire circumstances a person will consider suicide and need help. Some may even need to be hospitalised.
I have never once said a person that is suicidal will not be able to post on an Internet forum. A person in such a dilemma is desperate and will do anything including going online searching for help to convey their thoughts. It is something I do not wish to discus, for I have helped counsel two people that were contemplating suicide. One person explained to me at length, on the telephone, how he was going to end his life using a ligature. I found the experience most distressing.
In the five years I have been at this forum it is often mentioned that tinnitus is not regarded as a disability in the UK or any other country. This is not correct, I cannot speak for what goes on in other countries regarding tinnitus and disability. I live in the UK and know for a fact that tinnitus is regarded as a disability. However, certain criteria has to be met in order for a person to receive Sickness Benefit for tinnitus. I will not divulge in an open forum what the necessary criteria is. However, I will say please read between the lines in what I have written above to know what the benefit agency regard as severe debilitating tinnitus.
I will not be commenting further on this issue and politely ask people not to ask me any more questions on it.
Michael