Hello everyone!
First of all, I can't tell you how happy I am to find all of you, so it doesn't make me feel alone with this problem.
The thing is I am not sure what exactly I have, because I went once to my ENT who always says that all my ear problems are because of my allergic rhinitis (I have hay fever in May and June every year, I live in Lithuania).
I think there is some kind of truth in this, this allergy adds up, but I know it's much more than this. Besides this doctor, I didn't go anywhere else, I kind of got used to it... also, I am a bit scared of finding out it's something serious... but in the end of this month I will go again to the ENT.
So my story is that in 2013 October I had a long-haul flight. Just before it I caught a cold, and while flying it turned into a runny nose... when I was landing, I experienced a barotrauma. My ears were blocked for 1-2 weeks but they unblocked.
Until this, I had never had any ear problems.
Then after 6 months, again I had a flight, and it was a period when I had a hay fever with itchy runny nose, and again my ears got blocked, but then unblocked quite quickly within a few days.
Then, after 4 months I had my wisdom tooth extracted (on the left), and my right ear was blocked for a week.
And then after 5 months, I got sick, I had a sore throat for a day which went to my ears. It was really annoying, because my head fell full, I even had a slight vertigo, dizziness, and just couldn't do anything. After 2 weeks... it got better BUT NEVER AS IT WAS BEFORE. Since this time, 2015 March (almost 5 years now) my ears are just not ok.
Also, I need to mention that just before this sickness, I went to the party with my colleagues, and well, I got poisoned a bit , and vomited... and somehow I think it has to do something with acids, acid reflux... or like you say the BURPING, YAWNING or HICCUP thing... I remember since 2015 March until June 2016 I always felt a lump in my throat and something was not right. But it ended in June 2016 when I got pregnant (it's strange, because usually these things get worse while you are pregnant)... But I mean my situation with this acid reflux or whatever ended for quite many years (until this year), but ear problems never ended.
So if I am not sick, if there's no flight and I just feel healthy in general, still I feel like my both ears (but left is more) are kind of blocked or clogged, it looks like some air is stuck there. I do the Valsalva method (which I know is not good) quite often, because every time I feel this fullness, I have a hope that maybe with the Valsalve method I will be able to push it out. But I feel that this air touches my eardrum (from the middle ear side), and it stops...and when I swallow, it just pops back in... And I do this method again and again ... and I think it might have damaged by Tensor Tympanis muscle... because I feel this twitching/vibrating/pulsating sensations in my ears...
Also I am a very sensitive person, I feel all the minor pains in my body; I also have health anxiety and in general I worry about everything. I also have Cervical Spondylosis (so my shoulder blades, upper back and neck are always tense). By the way I am now 33 years old.
This year September I got poisoned, and so I vomited; and then again in October I caught a stomach bug from my daughter and I vomitted again. And I feel that it somehow "woke" my ears problem (even though it was never gone)... So I am sure it's related.
My other sympton which is not very often but it happens a few times per year, is that just before falling asleep I might hear the sound of something like a crash cymbals.
So guys, I really don't know what it is, but I think it's one of these things, maybe a few of them or maybe all of them: the barotraumas; allergic rhinitis; acid reflux; cervical spondylosis; anxiety/tension; the use of q-tips (I don't use them anymore, but all my life I was using them and quite aggressively because my ear canals itch and it's quite pleasant to put a q-tip and just scratch a bit); TMJ (a few months ago my doctor told me my teeth are a bit worn down so I had to get night guards for my teeth; so maybe my jaw is causing this)....
But as I read all your comments, I think more or less we all have of the same (very strange) thing in our ears.
There are days when I don't notice it and forget about it, but there are days when this ear pressure and eardrum vibrating moments just make me feel so nervous. Also, when I swallow, burp, hiccup and yawn, sometimes it makes me feel that it will be better, but in the end it just irritates all the ear space, and this heavy fullness is constantly there... So yes it's a bit depressing, but I am glad my hearing is good, and it's just nice to know you're not alone.
Thank you everyone for your comments and for your detailed descriptions of the problem!