When people get older it gets harder to get in and out of a low car. When people get to a certain age it's not all about speed or having a status car. The CRV has a lot more trunk space as opposed to an Accord and you don't have to reach down and into it. Parts for a car like a Honda can be had at a much more reasonable price than a BMW along with more techs who can work on them.
The CRV is a nice and quiet car depending what you need. The driver seat can get a little uncomfortable on longer drives. I would check that out if you decide to look at one. When I get in the CRV it's easy to drive with great visibility and a tight turning radius and quiet.
I agree with AZ on purchasing a car off lease from a dealer. Look for a low milage one with a warranty and save yourself the depreciation. This is coming from what I assume are two guys who like to work on cars. If you have the means to get a new car and will be relying on someone else to maintain it a new car may be worth it.
That's understandable, age does play a part in vehicle selection. Honda makes a damn good product, I had an 05 six speed manual accord couple a few years back, built well, fun, and very comfortable. The transverse mounted v6 wasn't the easiest thing to work on (especially with my big ass hands), but other than that it was a great car.
As far as Euros go, some buy for status, others (like myself) buy because we are enthusiasts and appreciate the styling, features, and performance (a sharp handling car will save your butt when time comes to perform an emergency maneuver). I do all my own work, and track my cars frequently, it's something I'm very passionate about. Some parts are indeed expensive, but with a warranty you'd be ok, although regardless of whether or not I have one I'm still doing the work myself. I'm very particular about how things are done, shops like to take shortcuts to save time, I go nice and slow and do everything by the service manual.
Now of course I'm biased... But I will say this; If this will be OP's only car a Honda would probably be a better choice, it will practically never fail you, as long as you keep up with routine maintenance. Definitely can't go wrong driving a Honda.