that is a very good point, most people on here, myself included are new and struggling, though if I look back the times I struggle is SLOWLY decreasing. I have run into many people when I tell them I got T who say their father or brother have it and they are fine with it. I am sure many people whose T went away or they habituated to it don't come on the site anymore, not that I can blame them. We are lucky for the ones who have success in overcoming yet still come and answer questions and offer support. My guess is that a huge majority of people deal well with it over time, it seems from the majority of veterans time is the key.