Yes my neighbor is completely deaf and does not have T. I wouldn't be surprised if she just didn't know since she is COMPLETELY deaf.
I didn't want to push it though and wake her up to this awfulness.
I know people here don't like to believe this but I myself have realized other ringing that I NEVER knew I had before because that was just what silence was. It is very hard to explain but part of it is that before T why would someone go into silence to see what they can hear?
I wish it was like that for me.
When my older brother got T, (Just a single noise Hissing. That after a year or so. Goes away for long periods of time but comes back when he gets upset/stressed.) I would plug my ears occasionally looking for ringing/noises.
Would hear nothing, I knew that everyone heard some sounds to some degree if you were in a truly silent environment. Like an Anechoic Chamber. I can vaguely remember plugging my ears a few times throughout my life and if I listened hard enough could hear a semblance of some sounds (probably blood flow and other junk).
But never anything like the T I have now. I remember a few weeks to a month
A few weeks to a month before my T started, I was working on a piece of music and the sharp and distinctive harmonic sounds of a Draw Bar Organ had started to irritate my ears. (At low volumes) Ear fatigue is normal when working on music and focusing intently on different sounds and frequencies and mix balance for longish periods of time. (I think it had only been 2-3 hours that day). At the end of it after being tired from work, little stressed about getting the sound just right ,I started to hear what I thought was some ringing noise. My anxiety started to spike, but then I told myself it was fine. It was nothing, calm down the anxiety and it will go away. I calmed down. And it disappeared completely.
30 - 40% of people with hearing loss have T. But 90% of people with T have hearing loss.
I know it sucks to know you were unlucky enough to get T with your hearing loss. But that isn't the reality for the majority of people with hearing loss.
(Mostly want to say this because of how overwhelmingly negative this board is. Is this the American tinnitus support forum? If so, wow America, you really fucking suck, especially compared to the rest of the world.)
It must be nice to live in your world.
In mine, I had been training my ears for over a decade for a career in Audio (At very safe sound levels. Loudest I ever worked on anything was probably in the 70dB range. And never constant sound. Always stopping and going working on one part for intermittent periods of time. Ex, mixing when working on one isolated track). I was very proud of how far I had developed my ear to discern sound. I never went to concerts, I can count the number of concerts i've been to on one hand. Last one was 4-7 years ago. I could never get into concerts and they were always way too loud.
So this directly has affected what i've spent almost half my life training for. What i've dreamed of doing basically my whole life. Something that could kill my potential lively hood. Now I have to start looking for potential alternatives if a certain aspect of my T doesnt' get better.
Meanwhile, I have known tons of people who have abused the shit out of their ears without a care in the world and they get fucking nothing. Musicians or otherwise.
I wont' say i've been very negative. Most of the time, I have a positive outlook and try to keep that up.
But for many people, it's incredibly difficult to have a positive outlook when you have 24/7 torture and modern science is an absolute joke when it comes to the Ears.
They can find a million and one ways to kill and damage our ears. But not a single god damn thing to protect or heal them.
And their only guiding solution is "learn to live with it".
When people have killed themselves over a medical problem. It's probably safe to say, it can be very hard to deal with. And difficult not be negative.
And it's not just in the USA. People are negative about it all over the world. And tons of members here are not from the US. It's a global board that just happens to speak English.