Don't you realize how incredibly toxic that is to say to a 16 year old? For all we know the symptoms could subside once the infection goes away.
We do not even know if she has an infection.
That in combination with what you said:
"As you are in the acute stage, the actions you take in the short term can have a huge impact on your long term outlook"
Key word: "
can". In any case, I do not have time to argue biology with you. Treatment during acute stage of any injury often plays a significant role in long term prognosis. Fact. You will of course argue "we do not know if she has an injury". Maybe not (even if my personal belief is otherwise), but that doesn't mean she can't take immediate actions that would only benefit her in the event it is an injury i.e. acoustic shock/inflamed middle ear. The alternative is do nothing now, find out in a year from now that she indeed have acoustic shock, but by then it becomes much more difficult to do anything about it.
Apparently you do not understand what "literally" means.
Seems like you'd rather play with words than take ownership of what you said. Just admit what you implied rather than trying to backtrack.
Before you try to infer all sorts of implied meanings behind my post, you should read my earlier messages, in which I explained that, based on her symptoms, we do not know the mechanism behind her sound sensitivity, it could be mental, but also somatic.
You said it was in the brain, but you also said she has an infection. So I thought you knew?
Already addressed the difference between advising itself and giving drastic advice in my previous post. Never did I once say we should not give any advice whatsoever. No offense, but please work on your reading comprehension.
You said we should be careful, as if to suggest then we should all just sit back and do nothing. Who are you to determine who gives what advice on this forum? And as I said, if a support forum is not to give advice, then what is it for?
I am willing to bet "most of us" are quite a few years older, already suffering from tinnitus, have listened to way too much music, have ignored pain signals for way too long etc. There's just no way her hyperacusis is irreversible already. Besides that, it will probably be a couple of years at worst before Kv7.2/Kv7.3 channel activators come out. In no way is lifelong hyperacusis even in the picture yet.
If you were on this forum for long enough, you'd know how many have pulled the plug before a treatment has ever become available - which we are still waiting for. So lifelong hyperacusis is very much on the cards for anyone who doesn't have the patience of a saint to wait for one. We have no guarantee that potassium channel drugs will help every single patient, as it's possible pathology can vary.
Again, I am not interested in arguing with you, but if you call me a hypocrite I have no choice but to defend myself against these accusations.
I do not wish to argue either, but equally I am not going to sit back and watch a 16 year old suffer without offering some advice that I and others have acquired through the benefit of hindsight and experience. If that means I need to convince her not to listen to you, then I have no choice but to call bullshit when I see it. I am not on this forum for popularity points, but having said that you are the first and only person I have fallen out with since I've been on here, (other than Michael Leigh, but he doesn't count because every other hyperacusis sufferer falls out with him also).
When I talked about drastic advice and doomsday scenarios, I was not only referring to you here. Someone in this thread even said:
"I'm confident your condition will improve but even if and when it does you now have an underlying condition that sets you apart from your peers and that you'll have to be aware of which is a challenge when you're still so young and want to try things out and discover the world."
Don't you realize how incredibly toxic that is to say to a 16 year old? For all we know the symptoms could subside once the infection goes away.
One more thing. You have mentioned the word "drastic" to describe the advice myself and others have given. Let's talk about what drastic really is.
Drastic is confining yourself to a room 24/7 because you are in continuous fear of the decibel volume outside your four walls. Drastic is soundproofing your car and putting up acoustic curtains in your room. Drastic is having to wear ear protection every time you leave the house. Drastic is having to sell your house because you can no longer pay the bills because you had to quit your job which was causing you pain, because it was too loud. Drastic is having to give up a lifetime of socialising and dating, because you become a burden when it comes to anyone else having any kind of fun in your presence whatsoever. Drastic is having to eat all the time with plastic cutlery and plates and cups because the sound of metallic cutlery pierces through the ears like a knife. Drastic is having to confine all your communication with the outside world via text or email, because a phone call or voice message is too much too handle. Drastic is having to give up your favourite hobbies, such as playing music or watching movies or playing sports. Drastic is having to present your loved ones with research and medical papers to try and make an argument that you are not in fact crazy and you have not lost your mind.
The above are just some of the sacrifices myself and others have made as part of having to live with this hell of a condition. So please do not ever preach to me or anyone else on here again with this condition about what "drastic" is. The advice I have given pales into comparison with the compromises I and others have made to accommodate this condition when it reaches its worst ever state, advice which may in the long term prevent her from having to make the same compromises and sacrifices.