Congratulations Kathi, now all the spoiling begins!
@Kathi,
How wonderful!! Congratulations to you and your husband! Thanks for sharing this news with us.
I'm a first-time grandmother myself. My little grandson is turning three years old this week, and he is truly a blessing. Being a grandparent is a wonderful experience, and I know you'll love it!
Very best wishes,
Karen
Congrats Kathi!
Like Karen, I also have a toddler grandson. He's an adorable child and a lot of fun to be with. You're going to really enjoy being a grandmother!!
Oh, and unlike being their parent, you don't have to change their diapers. You just hand the child back to their mom or dad for them to change....![]()
Let's hope there's only a couple of them in your future. My ex has ten grandchildren. Every time I turned around they were visiting. The TV was playing kid's shows, the house was noisy, there was no time or space to actually think. Moderation is best.
Allow yourself the opportunity to explore who you are. Take a cruise. Do some writing. Read a lot. Become a member of an adult group. Continue to grow intellectually. Otherwise, you will be the appointed babysitter.
Same here, Kathi. My daughter and son-in-law aren't planning to have any more children, so this is my one grandson, too. I have another daughter who is younger, and not quite ready to have children yet. So, we'll see......
I am very excited for you; having a grandson is a wonderful experience!
Reminds me Kathi of our first son, I was out buying toys too well before the day and got a chuckle from a few people!
Ha Ha, I remember Kathi, having a discussion with my wife before our son was born at the cash, why are you getting that and I was explaining my reasoning and the cashier who was a guy was smiling and listening to us. Every time I went back to the store he seen me he must have remembered, he always had that sly smile, and yes its me, I'm back again and he is still not born!
I'm reminded of how my grandmother used to always have candy out for us kids when we visited. She loved to spoil us and watch as we kept "sneaking" another handful of whatever she had out for us. Dinners were always the best no matter what they consisted of. It didn't matter, because there was love. You could feel it.
Grandmothers are wonderful contributors to a child's life, whether it be clothes or candy, they love to give, as do grandfathers, although they are maybe more into guy things. My grandfather loved to hunt and as soon as I was able, he took me along with him. Not even out of grade school, I'd hop into the cab of his truck at night. We'd wander the woods as we followed the dogs to a treed 'possum, even in the dead of winter with snow to our ankles. And I loved every minute of it. We ate those 'possums too. Nothing went to waste.
I'm going to be a grandmother! I am so happy and so is my husband. Life is good.