How to help us not to get too depressed by the presence of T in our life? Perhaps try to work on the mental side of the battle with T. Instead of letting it take the main stage of your life, try to minimize it by countering all the negative or distorted thoughts. These are called cognitive distortions in CBT and they tend to affect our mental stability. So we need to counter them by writing down the thoughts and counter with more positive ones. Google 'cognitive distortions' and you will see a long list of such distorted thoughts which can contribute to depression if we don't counter them.
I used to feel sad and scared about my T. I thought my future was going to be all dark and disastrous (called Catastrophic Thinking), and I thought my life would be no more fun & not worth living (All or Nothing Thinking), etc. etc. Then I tried to counter them one by one, writing down all the positives in my life other than T. Then I thought I should treat life like going to a beautiful park with family or friends. There you have beautiful flower blooming and green trees plus fresh air. Should I focus on the beauty all around me, enjoying the sweet time with family or friends, or should I turn my focus on the dog/bird poo at some scattered spots in the park? Should I remember my park visit by the wonderful experience or should I put all my attention to the poo and get very negative about the experience?
Life is full of imperfections. T is one. But T is just a slice of life. It can be minimized, ignored and habituated over time. By living life abundantly regardless of T, we can learn to live our life in peaceful co-existence with T and even bury it along the way. I detail 10 points in my success story post to help a newer member to get better. You can read that and other members' stories too to get some insights how they battle with T and win.