Hi, Blurrby, and welcome! I'm so sorry you've recently been diagnosed with tinnitus, and are having anxiety problems. Most of us with tinnitus were frightened and anxious in the beginning, but with the passage of time, things usually settle down.
In the meantime, here are some things you can do:
1. Read the "Don't Panic" guide on the main page, upper right hand side, of this forum. There, you'll find lots of helpful information and tips for dealing with tinnitus.
2. Consider asking your doctor for a sleep aid and/or an anti=anxiety pill for short term use. Or, you could try a natural supplement, such as melatonin for sleep, or pharma GABA or holy basil for calming. Magnesium has also worked well for me. I take two magnesium chloride tablets every night before bed. It helps me relax, and get sleepy naturally.
3. Have some type of background sound in your environment at all times, particularly when tinnitus is new. It will help you mask the tinnitus, and cope with it much better. You can try a sound app, or perhaps even a sound machine. Water sounds work particularly well for many of us.
4. You could ask your doctor for a prescription for Prednisone. In early tinnitus, it can help reduce the sound, especially if it is due to inflammation.
5. Consider taking NAC (N-acetlycistene), a natural supplement that helps protect your ears from further damage, and may help take the edge off the sound.
6. Find a support system to help you through this rough time. If you don't have anyone around you who understands, you can always come here for support 24/7. We understand what you're going through.
Good luck, and please keep us posted on how you're doing!
Best wishes,
Karen