Mental Health and Tinnitus

Nikkilu

Member
Author
Apr 20, 2019
10
United kingdom
Tinnitus Since
28/3/2019
Cause of Tinnitus
ear infection, allergies
Hey everyone, I'm new here and I'm in a real state.

I had an ear infection about three weeks ago and since then I've had tinnitus in my right ear which isn't getting better.

Last few days I've noticed it comes on and off in my left ear and I'm stressing out so much.

I know it hasn't been long but I suffer with my mental health so badly and it's affecting me loads. I don't know how to deal with this.
 
You aren't alone, this takes its toll on all of us. Try and hang in there and it still is very early days for you.
 
Hey everyone, I'm new here and I'm in a real state.

I had an ear infection about three weeks ago and since then I've had tinnitus in my right ear which isn't getting better.

Last few days I've noticed it comes on and off in my left ear and I'm stressing out so much.

I know it hasn't been long but I suffer with my mental health so badly and it's affecting me loads. I don't know how to deal with this.

T due to an ear infection often goes away after the infection clears, but it can take several weeks for that to happen.

Good luck!
 
Thank you for your replies. The infection seems to have cleared up but my ears still feel clogged up and I have constant ringing. I'm going to the doctors on Tuesday anyway to see what they say.
 
Hey everyone, I'm new here and I'm in a real state.

I had an ear infection about three weeks ago and since then I've had tinnitus in my right ear which isn't getting better.

Last few days I've noticed it comes on and off in my left ear and I'm stressing out so much.

I know it hasn't been long but I suffer with my mental health so badly and it's affecting me loads. I don't know how to deal with this.

Nikkilu,

You are still at the very early stages of having tinnitus so hang in there, it will get better.

Our ears are very sensitive and it heals very slowly. Be sure to stay away from loud noises and don't use headphones for music so that you don't hurt your ears more.
 
T is rough sometimes. You'll have your good days and your bad days, but it's important to not let T live your life. I try to think of mine like a noisy roommate; sometimes they're a good neighbor, and other times? Well, yeah.

I'm a little more conscientious about loud music, sound, movie theaters and concerts, but that doesn't mean that I shouldn't or can't go to them. It just means I have to be a little more careful and responsible and take some extra personal precautions like ear plugs. T isn't cancer or an auto-immune disease -- it could be far worse!

I've been dealing with depression and social anxiety for around 15-16 years. I think planning around your T will quickly make you pretty unhappy. I try to plan with it, but kick it to the curb or the back seat. I place a lot more priority on the people that I'm seeing or the activities we're doing and it tends to fade into the background.

When I'm actually out and living my life T is usually masked by general environmental noise. The hustle and bustle of urban/suburban life, really. I don't notice it much while I'm out dating, or at the mall, listening to music. As cliche as it sounds like, I think for most people, it gets better.

It doesn't necessarily, "go away," but it fades and y'know, there's a lot of noise or language that we tune out and filter, and I think T is the same way. It's been a month or so? It's a lot easier than it was the first several days or weeks, so hold out hope, Nikki!
 
I had an ear infection about three weeks ago and since then I've had tinnitus in my right ear which isn't getting better.
There is a good chance that your T will go away several months (i.e., 3-12 months) after your infection clears. Ears take forever to heal.
 
Thank you everyone, on top of my anxiety and depression it's really brought a massive downer on my life.

Question, I know loud noises can make it worse but I have a close friends party this Saturday which I have to attend as I've partly organised it. There's going to be a band on and were all into metal/rock music. If I wear ear protection will I be okay? I've ordered earpeace and alpine partyplugs. Im worried about it and I've never had issues with my ears before regarding loud noises.
 
Thank you everyone, on top of my anxiety and depression it's really brought a massive downer on my life.

Question, I know loud noises can make it worse but I have a close friends party this Saturday which I have to attend as I've partly organised it. There's going to be a band on and were all into metal/rock music. If I wear ear protection will I be okay? I've ordered earpeace and alpine partyplugs. Im worried about it and I've never had issues with my ears before regarding loud noises.

I wouldn't even bother with musician earplugs during live music since they cut out barely any noise. If i were you I would use heavy duty foam earplugs like the Hearos Xtreme or other brands like 3M 1100. Most important thing, insert them correctly (this will take a few tries). I would also try to stand as far away from the band as possible and leave if it gets to loud.
 
Thank you everyone, on top of my anxiety and depression it's really brought a massive downer on my life.

Question, I know loud noises can make it worse but I have a close friends party this Saturday which I have to attend as I've partly organised it. There's going to be a band on and were all into metal/rock music. If I wear ear protection will I be okay? I've ordered earpeace and alpine partyplugs. Im worried about it and I've never had issues with my ears before regarding loud noises.

As others mentioned ear infection takes time to completly heal. Until it doesn't your ears are very sensitive and I would advise you to stay away from loud noises. You may not feel when it is too loud to cause damage in your ears. If people in party are your friends they will understand your situation.
 
I'll echo on what others here have said. I have ETD in my left side that is affecting my left ear. I probably got it in Dec. after a bad head cold, which didn't come to light until I had a TBI in January. Mine is slowly clearing, and I get more good days than bad, many of which are tinnitus free. Bit of setback yesterday as I have another bad head cold, and it was with me most of the day. Woke at 2 am and it was gone, it's after 8am AST now and it's still silent. That has been my experience for the last month. One bad day followed by a few good ones. My concusssion doc, who suffers from T. is confident it will disappear, or at the very least will lessen to a very low amplitude.
 
If I wear ear protection will I be okay?
You might be ok (the chance of you being ok is probably high). But there seems to be a non negligible chance that you might not be ok, even if you wear earplugs.

See the posts that I quoted in the first post of the thread below
https://www.tinnitustalk.com/threads/learn-from-others-mistakes.29437/

Here are some newer cases (we get posts like that several times a week):
Oh go you'll be fine they said. Wear earplugs they said.

So I went to the event with ear plugs. Was there for only a few minutes. Big mistake. Gave me low drone/hum that's worst than the high pitch hiss/eeeee, tea kettle sounds. Never went away. sigh
3 1/2 years ago.

Everyone is different. Every situation is different.
You have to make a decision and live with it.

I have made some mistakes in my past by going to loud places with earplugs and made my progress bad, and now sometimes I think it's permanent, but I am happy that I am somewhat habituated and don't have any panic attacks.
Even if you get completely recovered don't expose yourself to any loud environment anymore even with earplugs.

@another sean is right. Played an acoustic piano for about an hour, like an amateur, went to bed a couple of hours later - tinnitus felt quite intense that night, woke up and all hell broke loose. High pitched tinnitus higher and my left war making more weird noises. It's been pandemonium since.
Relatively safe Bill. I was wearing a musicians earplug in my right ear, but not my left as I had an issue with dry skin in my ear lobe at the time, but regardless, there was no discomfort, no fullness, no pain, nothing. On reflection I think my tinnitus felt more intense later in the night, but I wasn't perturbed by that as it's not uncommon for tinnitus to feel more intense at certain points of the day, especially night.
About 3 weeks ago I started to feel better but I went out one day and I wasn't wearing my earplugs for only ten minutes. It was a restaurant with music playing but it wasn't loud. Still I came home with a loud spike and thought it would go away in the morning but it stayed the same until now. I also have this feeling of fullness mostly in my right ear which has nonstop ringing.

I agree with
I didn't read all the above comments, but did peruse a fair amount of it, and ran across many good points on both sides of the argument. What strikes me is there seems to be an underlying assumption (of course I may be wrong on this) that all brains and neurological systems are created equal. The way I see it, that's simply not the case, so everybody's way of dealing with tinnitus and/or hyperacusis is going to have to be highly individualized.

I read a book many years ago called "Adrenal Syndrome". A lot of the book touched on the residual resiliency of people's adrenal glands as they respond to life's stresses. Very low resiliency often resulted in months/years of chronic debilitating exhaustion following a stressful event(s) in their lives. Very high resiliency indicated essentially the opposite. The author broke this down into some rough numbers:

25% of people have low resiliency, meaning normal life stressors will often send them into some degree of a tailspin.
25% of people have high resiliency, meaning that no matter how severe a stressor comes into their lives, they will be able to cope without becoming debilitated to any degree.
50% of people fall somewhere inbetween.

I believe there are some kind of corresponding numbers for a person's brain and neurological resiliency as well, which can greatly affect the ability to cope with tinnitus. (I believe adrenal resiliency also plays a major role in our ability to cope). -- Based on these assumptions, it's pretty easy for me to conclude that what may be overprotection for one person will be underprotection for another, and vice versa.

I think the main point to understand for someone new to tinnitus is that their path forward is going to be a lot of "testing the waters". Generally, IMHO, it's going to take a few weeks or months to get important insights that will help us achieve a healthy balance. In all likelihood, most people are going to learn from experience when their over-protecting or under-protecting.

I've come to believe however, that in those early months, if one is going to err in either direction, it should be toward overprotection. It just seems to me the consequences of underprotection (which could result in permanent injury) in those early times are much more dire than the consequences of overprotection--which as I understand, generally results in temporary setbacks.

Doing a number of things to better support the brain and neurological system and the body's stress response (adrenal glands) is quite high on my list of recommendations I would make to anybody with tinnitus. Doing so might even prevent phonophobia or OCD, etc., as we go through our learning curves -- Just my 2 cents worth.
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Relative newbies to tinnitus are likely to find all the information/opinions above quite confusing. So here are a few common-sense rules to follow:

1. The best protection of all is avoidance. Even the best earplugs can't guarantee complete hearing protection so those relatively new to tinnitus are best advised to avoid prolonged loud noise exposure - especially amplified sound at for example live concerts and sports events. This may involve lifestyle changes.

2. When in doubt, use hearing protection. In the many tasks we all do through the week, some will inevitably involve exposure to noise - which may be at higher levels than we at first realise - so using hearing protection for many of these is only sensible.

3. Build quiet into your day. It's not a good idea to be wearing hearing protection all the time - so you need to give your ears a break by ensuring that there will be quieter times during your day when hearing protection isn't necessary.This may involve changing your routine. Use soft masking noise and light music (not using headphones) to avoid "silence" where tinnitus is most noticeable.

4. Don't stress about stress. Tinnitus newbies are forever being told that the thing which makes tinnitus worse is stress. But while it's true that how you are feeling at a particular moment can make tinnitus temporarily louder, it won't have a lasting effect. But prolonged loud noise exposure can make tinnitus permanently louder. So don't stress about stress - but do be concerned about noise.
 
Hey everyone, I'm new here and I'm in a real state.

I had an ear infection about three weeks ago and since then I've had tinnitus in my right ear which isn't getting better.


Last few days I've noticed it comes on and off in my left ear and I'm stressing out so much.

I know it hasn't been long but I suffer with my mental health so badly and it's affecting me loads. I don't know how to deal with this.

Hopefully it will heal up and go away. T is horrible for our mental health. Try and relax and move forward
 
I really hope it heals and goes away. The idea of it dominating my life and having to avoid the things I love like gigs is really upsetting. I'll have to go for abit Saturday but leave when the loud music comes on.
 
The infection seems to have cleared up but my ears still feel clogged up
Hi
@Nikkilu -- You may want to consider acupuncture, which is often helpful with tinnitus. They can do certain points that will help "unclogg" the ears. -- All the Best...
 
Hi Nikkilu, I noticed that you are in the UK.

Boots sell a cheap brand of wax earplugs called 'Muffles'. When inserted, you will barely hear a thing.

I would be very wary of exposing your ears to loud music at this stage but if you stick them in when frequenting the noisiest places at the party you should be okay. But you will not be able to have a conversation with anyone if you adopt this approach.

However, this is possible if you take them out in a quiet spot.

It might be an odd way to handle things but it worked for me at a couple of gigs. I was, at least, able to soak up the atmosphere even though I was unable to hear very much.

Regardless, the wax earplugs are worth knowing about.

Incidentally, I used Mindfulness to habituate my tinnitus. There are a couple of cheap paperbacks (The Mindful Way Through Depression, The Mindful Way Through Anxiety) that might help you with your other issues.
 
Hi. Sorry that you are going through this. Tinnitus can be tied to mental health, stress and anxiety and as hard as it may be, try to relax as much as possible to not over stress and focus on your tinnitus. Keep busy to distract yourself and wear ear plugs only when necessary like at loud music venues or don't go altogether. When not around loud environments, it is best not to "over" protect as this can inadvertently cause you to focus on tinnitus more.

Some of the things which I do to keep busy: I volunteer a few times a week at the food bank and drive for Meals on Wheels. I play soccer (football) 3x a week and mountain bike as much as possible.

To relax: I listen to audio books on my phone, relaxation apps (there are many free ones). At night I play relaxing sounds (also free) on my Amazon Echo next to my bed.
 

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