My Grandmother Is Tormented

[IvanRus]

Yes, my grandmother is sick with her insanity, although no one will admit it. I still have to live with her, since I do not have the money, and I save money on rented accommodation. She is very tormented by me, my nerves. I asked her not to touch me, and she did not scream at me, because it's so hard for me. But she does not care, she does not understand and does not want to understand.

Yesterday, she again made a scandal because of such nonsense as an open window - I opened the window for a moment to ventilate the room - she ran in and started shouting loudly and scolding me, I could not stand it anymore and threw a soft object into it. Then it all continued, I ran out without clothes on the street at -20 ° C. To everything else I caught a cold, I'm terribly nervous.noise cuts my brain in such moments. I'm afraid that stress and screams can ruin an ear.

Today is a hell of a day. I lie and cry all day and I want to die, I'm tired of such pressure. They broke me.

Noise cuts my brain in such moments. I'm afraid that stress and screams can ruin an ear.

 

[fishbone]

I know how you feel. I had to deal with this struggle for over 14+ years. My parents were very sick and i was their primary caregiver. They didn't care and would scream and raise hell non-stop. It's very hard to deal with and having tinnitus makes it much more horrible.

Try to avoid her as much as you can. It's hard I know, but try not to be around her as much as you can. I know how you feel 100% and I was in your shoes and i was like, when is this madness going to stop. Just have hope buddy, I know it's hard but things can get better, never stop believing.

 

[Bill Bauer]

Is it the case that she can absolutely can't be reasoned with? Would she understand that she didn't have to scream, that you would have closed the window if she were to just ask you to close it?

Or did she ask you many times nicely to not open windows in the past, and she had a reason to get angry when she saw the window being open?