I know my eardrum is supposed to be healing from having a ventilation tube removed. But that was 2 weeks ago and the symptoms are just getting worse and worse. It feels like my eardrum is turning into a tight, numb, vibrating lump. It's so tense and the tinnitus sound is getting louder and louder. The ENT inspected my eardrum 2 days ago and she saw nothing wrong. If this is muscle tension how do you make the muscles in your ear relax? I do relaxation exercises every day, and I've been trying to take it easy and not freak out over this development, but I'm getting really scared now.