@alex1975
Unfortunately your experience is not uncommon and not just related to tinnitus. A lot of people feel this way towards anyone that is sick or has a medical condition that can be difficult to manage like tinnitus. As long as they are not affected seldom do they really care or even want to know. Thankfully not everyone thinks this way including yours truly. I learnt this from my late mother many years ago in my early teens. She was waiting at a bus stop with her two sisters (my Aunts) and suddenly doubled over wincing from the pain in her stomach. One sister blurted out
"Sis, why do you complain about your health". Which is certainly not true. Her other sister, a nurse was concerned because of the area where the pain was located. She advised her to see the GP as soon as possible. It turned out my Mother had bowel cancer. Fortunately it was caught in time and she lived for many years.
I now live in Brighton but was born and raised in London. I returned there a few weeks ago and saw my old neighbour, who knows I have had tinnitus for many years. I would mention it occasionally but seldom went into details how it affected me, as he was always on a rush having his own business as a builder. He poured his heart out saying:
"Now I know what you have been going through with tinnitus. I had it for 4 months. Couldn't sleep or work. I thought my life was over and felt like doing the unthinkable". I trust you all l know what I mean. Fortunately his tinnitus went away but he said, he just never understood when I was explaining tinnitus to him what it was like.
Michael