Hello there in Minnesota! I was in California, but I recently moved to Tennessee. I'm loving it here in TN
So at first I had almost a whole year of getting worse. Then when I started the things I mentioned in my post, I very slowly started getting better. The first couple of months were only tiny improvements. After a couple of months I was able to do more and more like going on walks and short trips to the store, and the rate of recovery seemed to speed up, too. I know what you mean about some days things sounding better or worse than other days, and it is extremely frustrating. I still get that! At first the fluctuations were significant, but at this point (over a year into recovery) most of the fluctuations I experience are minor and I try my hardest to ignore them.
To stay distracted I would work on puzzles, color in coloring books, organize my house, spend as much time with my kids as my ears would let me, and when I was finally able to go outside, I would go on lots of nature walks. It was really tiring having to actively keep myself so busy for every waking minute, but thankfully, I didn't have to do that forever. Also, practicing the DNRS program took up a lot of time so that helped to distract me, too.