Here, though: Our society and culture tries to instill in us (and probably we all buy into it to some degree or another, at some point or another) this "Looks matter" thing.
Okay, of course it's nice to appreciate our appearance.
But I can't emphasize enough that it DOES NOT MATTER.
It is a belief that wise and lucky people ultimately grow through and BEYOND. Even if it's something that we have to remind ourselves of, again and again.
Your new and best beauty treatments come from these:
1) Practice linking your internal joy to your BEST and BRIGHTEST ... SMILE <----
When you walk into a room and send out your smile, NO ONE (no one who's got it right inside their heart) is
responding to the style of your hair or clothes or wrinkles or not.
Want EVIDENCE?? Try this - from now on, when you are in social situations, who do you find yourself wanting
to be with? The nicest "looking"??? Or ... the nicest?
2)Practice finding (and reminding yourself of) the REAL and GENUINE activities and values of this awesomely
precious gift of LIFE that you have. Do this again and again and again and again and again ... and again (this
needs to be fed daily - your soul, like a garden, needs the watering of your love and attention to stay healthy and
shining).
What happens then? You become ever so beautifully ... BEAUTIFUL. It shows up in YOUR EYES.
Want EVIDENCE??? Start to look at VERY OLD PEOPLE. The ones for whom all YOUTHFUL physical beauty,
whether they ever had it or not, is utterly gone. Look at their EYES. Look at their SMILES.
If they have lived according to the beauty of the heart (see Number One and Number Two, above), you will see the shining magic of childlike wonder in their faces. And a life story behind them that was full of joy and meaning AND, especially, kindness and caring and giving to others, no matter what their skin or hair or clothing looked like.
Seize that. Seize it young and seize it early and life becomes a much richer journey.
Sending love and hugs.