I know you are hedging your bets a bit saying 'do what you want' but I think your advice can be dangerous.
You do not know me because if you did then you would know that I am not one for hedging bets.
You are using purely anecdotal evidence to tell people in a fragile emotional state not to listen to music (ever again) on headphones
My advice not to use headphones is strictly for people that have
noise-induced tinnitus. On your profile it reads tinnitus caused by Stress, TMJ, Neck. Therefore, since your tinnitus was not noise induced you know nothing about the condition. If memory serves me correctly you didn't agree with the advice your ENT doctor gave you and was asking for opinions from members of this forum and I gave it and stand by it. The advice I give to people is just that, advice, and is not absolute and mentioned this in many of my posts. A person is free to make their own decisions whether they wish to use headphones or not.
You also tried to tell me despite the advice of my ENT (who is an expert on tinnitus in my area) that despite her telling me that my tinnitus (in your estimation) was not caused by hearing damage or headphone use, that it was in fact caused by that because I am a musician.
You came to this forum asking for help and I gave it. Your ENT doctor, the one that you didn't agree with, is now an expert on tinnitus and I beg to differ. Your doctor knows so much about the condition, why on earth are you here asking for help with it?
Please note this: most ENT doctors know very little about tinnitus as this is not their area of expertise. They are physicians, not tinnitus specialists. They treat underlying medical problems that cause tinnitus but they do not treat tinnitus. Most of them have never experienced tinnitus. Those that have it's probably mild and nothing like some of the people in this forum that have it severe.
was not caused by hearing damage or headphone use, that it was in fact caused by that because I am a musician.
If your tinnitus is not noise induced then I am pleased for you. Continue using headphones and playing music until your heart content. Again, I give advice which is not absolute.
That sent me for an emotional tailspin for a week.
Are you so fickle that my advice sent you into a tailspin? I am not sorry for the advice I gave you. If you only want people to tell you what you want to hear, then I suggest that you stay away from this forum. Please remember you came here asking for help.
I believed what you said for no other reason than you said it without much afterthought. I met another ENT at Penn Medicine and they told me your advice was nonsense. It can be dangerous to subject people to a: believe the doctor, or believe the person on the forum scenario. You are dealing with possibly suicidal people. Please be more careful.
The ENT that told you my advice is nonsense is entitled to his or her opinion. Since the majority of them know nothing about tinnitus, that's all I will say on the matter. I will continue to advise people that ask for my help because it is based on many years of experience with noise-induced tinnitus unlike the ENT doctors that you ran to telling tales about me. They have no clue how debilitating tinnitus can be and they way it can affect a person's mental and emotional well-being. Remember, they are physicians and treat underlying medical problems within the auditory system that cause tinnitus.
Telling people that can't listen to music on headphones can be emotionally traumatic for people that have a close connection to music. If you want to get into the my audiologist vs your audiologist debate, we could be here all night.
I have never told people they can't listen to music through headphones. I give advice to people that have noise induced tinnitus. They are free to make their own decisions as most people will eventually do what they want to do.
Anecdotally I have musician friends that have tinnitus that play huge festivals and have not had any spikes in their tinnitus. Anecdotally I have friends that have tinnitus that listen to music on headphones 6 hours a day and have no increase in tinnitus. I know you are coming from a place of love. I genuinely believe that you are, otherwise why would you be here. I know you probably help a lot of people too and I respect and laud that, but I do not think you should be asserting your opinion without a much bigger asterisk. People are raw, emotionally vulnerable, and very malleable when they come in there, please be very careful with your language. Language is important.
You are free to do as your musician friends do. Since you are surrounded by well-informed people outside of this forum and according to you tinnitus experts, I am aghast as to why you are here. I will continue to do as I have been doing and that is to advise people that ask for my help on tinnitus.
Goodbye and I wish you well. I will not be commenting further.
Michael