What's more funny is that your entire opinion comes from a position of 'Russia wouldn't be so nasty if the Ukrainians had just given up from the get-go' and to me that speaks volumes about your thinly veiled loyalties. How exactly do you justify the notion of immediate surrender, unless you want a Russian victory? In that silly scenario of yours, it's true that Ukrainians would not be fine with another country just coming in and changing their democratically elected government... A new puppet government would be deeply unpopular and then guess what... that would require Russian forces (oh look, Russian militarized police) to quell any resistance. Had Ukraine just rolled over without a fight, Russia would still be conducting a genocide campaign. And we know this because that's what they tried to do in Bucha, and so many other Ukrainian cities. It's nothing new with them actually as their atrocities date all the way back to the Chechen wars and Georgia, hell we can even go back to WW2 as well.
You've yet to specify what victory looks like for Russia. For Russia, their objective is to capture most if not all of Ukraine. But if they can't even take 1/3 of the country without losing 40k military personnel, how do they expect to ever take over all of Ukraine and then hold it?
Is this supposed to be some sort of gotcha? The US was sounding the alarm of an imminent Russian invasion as early as November, 2021 and much of Europe spent more time dismissing it than planning how to deal with it.
If there's been any kind of silver lining to this horror show, it's that the Five Eyes appears to be functioning very well. The amount of (especially US and UK) intelligence that's been gathered and then declassified to spoke Putin's wheels whenever he tries his next move has been crucial. I am somewhat encouraged by how well our intelligence frameworks are conducting themselves after a very shaky few years.
But you know, there's always the Kremlin and their state media. Last I heard, they were claiming US funded bio labs in Ukraine were producing Ukrainian super soldiers. You might find that more palatable lol.
Inflation is smothering everyone, and while I think it was going to happen regardless, it's way worse because of Putin. However, I'd advocate ripping the bandaid off. EU nations, especially Germany, should be prepared to damage their economy further, because it would arrest Russia' progress and it's them who are at fault for being so dependent on Russia.