This is my first post and I want to give a little background before offering my two cents. My ears went berserk about 10 months ago after an acoustic trauma. This has made me as miserable as anything I've ever experienced, and I'd say it ruined my life for a while. The tinnitus continues to impact my life every hour of every day, though thankfully the worst of the hyperacusis has subsided and I am no longer panicking all the time. But what a misery. I've tried just about everything and seen every specialist possible. I have seen two ENTs, three audiologists, four psychotherapists, studied & practiced mindfulness meditation, had two audiograms, an EEG, taken anti-anxiety meds and a smattering of supplements, bought extra audio equipment to maintain a sound-enriched environment, plus a bunch of hearing protection to stay safe(r). I finally landed on a local tinnitus & hyperacusis clinic that finally gave an extended audiogram and diagnosed me with tinnitus, hyperacusis, tonic tensor tympani syndrome and misophonia, all triggered from that single event. I'm now starting my fourth month of TRT. I've spent upwards of US$6,000 out of pocket, so I have thought about what could have been done better.
Here's what I wish my doctor would have done:
1) Recognize that severe tinnitus/hyperacusis/etc. requires a multi-disciplinary treatment strategy, and help me organize it. It would have been tremendously helpful to have a designated medical person to coordinate my care, someone like the hospitalist who helps coordinate treatments when someone is in the hospital or has a serious illness. While some people may be minimally affected, those of us with serious problems like mine have REALLY serious problems, which requires a variety of specialists and information. I had to piecemeal my own approach based on the recommendations of the latest doctor I saw. Some freaked me out with their hopelessness, some gave me hope but couldn't deliver any treatment, and left me floundering. Most knew a little something, most cared, but all were isolated in their specialist world without an understanding of the bigger picture of what I needed, how to help, or what others could provide. And I needed a lot: mental health support, information on evidence-based treatment strategies and the normal course of recovery/rehabilitation, an extended audiogram, plus practical advice on how to protect your ears, and advice on how to avoid OVER-protecting your ears. Also knowledge of common treatments and quackery.
2) This is in the realm of fantasy: Provide insurance coverage for beneficial treatments like TRT. It's not a silver bullet, but it helps and gives me hope. It's just painfully expensive.
Aside from my tinnitus & hyperacusis clinic, this forum has given me the most help and hope. Ideally I'd like my doctors to be able to help steer my recovery and rehabilitation, but I am deeply grateful to all of the people who have shared their insights in this forum and filled in the knowledge that I can't get from my doctors.