Recent content by Robert Fahey

  1. Robert Fahey

    3 Weeks In

    Tinnitus is pretty common. It's stressful only until you get tired of dwelling on it. Then it becomes just another background noise. The more important matters of the day will take over, just like before. Your old self is still in there, and she'll come back to the surface.
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    Here's My Story...

    Tinnitus can shift around a bit before settling into one sound. The low thrum might go away or morph into something else. Anyway, don't freak out just because some others freak out in these forums. Anything new is unsettling. When it's no longer new, it becomes just another background noise...
  3. Robert Fahey

    Pulsatile Tinnitus Developed While Taking Minocycline

    I developed it while taking amoxicillin, on day seven of my 10-day treatment. And I still have it, though it did change from a distinct musical tone to a fuzzier hiss. So, Madays, let's assume the worst -- that it sticks around. At first, you'll feel attacked, damaged, cursed, handicapped...
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    Tomorrow is My One Month Anniversary. I'm Already Habituating

    Quoting myself: "This site attracts the full spectrum for sure, but probably tends toward the Nervous Nellies." I think I'm right, and people new to T should keep this in mind before they bracket the T experience based on this narrow sample. There are legions of T "sufferers" who sidestepped...
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    Tomorrow is My One Month Anniversary. I'm Already Habituating

    I think most doctors dislike the subject. They tend to break eye contact when I mention the word. I can see why. There's no way to appease the patient. No prescription. No treatment. Not even a clear prognosis. What can they possibly say about it? A million things can cause it and nothing fixes...
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    New to Tinnitus — I Think It's Smart Meter Related

    Tinnitus is worldwide phenomenon and pre-dates smart meters for sure. If a newfangled machine installed in some parts of the country caused tinnitus, there would be a deluge of complainants and lawsuits by now. Also, removing yourself from the machine would stop the buzz, no? Or does one...
  7. Robert Fahey

    Two sounds from the same ear?

    After I got an MRI two years ago, I swore up and down the T was louder, but in hindsight I was just anxious about the noise exposure. I don't think it really became louder. Two noises yes: If I say up late enough and I'm really tired, I start picking up the thrum of a distant helicopter that...
  8. Robert Fahey

    Success Stories?? Tell Me It Gets Better PLS!

    Jade, try to reserve your anxiety attacks for bad news. The doctor only told you what you already knew. That's actually good news. Nothing is amiss. And regarding your father, do you know of any connection between his tinnitus and suicide, besides speculation?
  9. Robert Fahey

    Learning to Live with Tinnitus

    This site has a ratio of 99 percent commiseration to 1 percent inspiration. Do you agree?
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    Sudden Onset Patient Wants to Be Proactive

    You know that high-pitched tone emitted by computer monitors and TVs? Tinnitus sounds like that, at least to me. So it means my brain is switched on. Better than the altnernative.
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    Learning to Live with Tinnitus

    For anyone who has overcome the anxiety and gone back to normal life despite tinnitus -- and there are many of us -- my statement will ring true, no pun intended. * "You control the volume knob": The intensity drops quite a bit when you no longer worry about it, so your attitude makes it...
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    Sudden Onset Patient Wants to Be Proactive

    Think of another physical flaw of yours. Now imagine being distracted and nagged by it for years. Doesn't happen. You adapt. Same will apply here. The long, difficult road you might be envisoning will likely turn out to be a little stubby road disappearing in the rear view mirror. You don't...
  13. Robert Fahey

    Learning to Live with Tinnitus

    You control the volume knob, and even the power button. When you stop worrying, it stops nagging.
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    Sudden Onset Patient Wants to Be Proactive

    Scary at first. Becomes a non-factor after a while. Do whatever it takes to rein in the anxiety.