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  1. Robert Fahey

    3 Weeks In

    Tinnitus is pretty common. It's stressful only until you get tired of dwelling on it. Then it becomes just another background noise. The more important matters of the day will take over, just like before. Your old self is still in there, and she'll come back to the surface.
  2. Robert Fahey

    Here's My Story...

    Tinnitus can shift around a bit before settling into one sound. The low thrum might go away or morph into something else. Anyway, don't freak out just because some others freak out in these forums. Anything new is unsettling. When it's no longer new, it becomes just another background noise...
  3. Robert Fahey

    Pulsatile Tinnitus Developed While Taking Minocycline

    I developed it while taking amoxicillin, on day seven of my 10-day treatment. And I still have it, though it did change from a distinct musical tone to a fuzzier hiss. So, Madays, let's assume the worst -- that it sticks around. At first, you'll feel attacked, damaged, cursed, handicapped...
  4. Robert Fahey

    Tomorrow is My One Month Anniversary. I'm Already Habituating

    Quoting myself: "This site attracts the full spectrum for sure, but probably tends toward the Nervous Nellies." I think I'm right, and people new to T should keep this in mind before they bracket the T experience based on this narrow sample. There are legions of T "sufferers" who sidestepped...
  5. Robert Fahey

    Tomorrow is My One Month Anniversary. I'm Already Habituating

    I think most doctors dislike the subject. They tend to break eye contact when I mention the word. I can see why. There's no way to appease the patient. No prescription. No treatment. Not even a clear prognosis. What can they possibly say about it? A million things can cause it and nothing fixes...
  6. Robert Fahey

    New to Tinnitus — I Think It's Smart Meter Related

    Tinnitus is worldwide phenomenon and pre-dates smart meters for sure. If a newfangled machine installed in some parts of the country caused tinnitus, there would be a deluge of complainants and lawsuits by now. Also, removing yourself from the machine would stop the buzz, no? Or does one...
  7. Robert Fahey

    Two sounds from the same ear?

    After I got an MRI two years ago, I swore up and down the T was louder, but in hindsight I was just anxious about the noise exposure. I don't think it really became louder. Two noises yes: If I say up late enough and I'm really tired, I start picking up the thrum of a distant helicopter that...
  8. Robert Fahey

    Success Stories?? Tell Me It Gets Better PLS!

    Jade, try to reserve your anxiety attacks for bad news. The doctor only told you what you already knew. That's actually good news. Nothing is amiss. And regarding your father, do you know of any connection between his tinnitus and suicide, besides speculation?
  9. Robert Fahey

    Learning to Live with Tinnitus

    This site has a ratio of 99 percent commiseration to 1 percent inspiration. Do you agree?
  10. Robert Fahey

    Sudden Onset Patient Wants to Be Proactive

    You know that high-pitched tone emitted by computer monitors and TVs? Tinnitus sounds like that, at least to me. So it means my brain is switched on. Better than the altnernative.
  11. Robert Fahey

    Learning to Live with Tinnitus

    For anyone who has overcome the anxiety and gone back to normal life despite tinnitus -- and there are many of us -- my statement will ring true, no pun intended. * "You control the volume knob": The intensity drops quite a bit when you no longer worry about it, so your attitude makes it...
  12. Robert Fahey

    Sudden Onset Patient Wants to Be Proactive

    Think of another physical flaw of yours. Now imagine being distracted and nagged by it for years. Doesn't happen. You adapt. Same will apply here. The long, difficult road you might be envisoning will likely turn out to be a little stubby road disappearing in the rear view mirror. You don't...
  13. Robert Fahey

    Learning to Live with Tinnitus

    You control the volume knob, and even the power button. When you stop worrying, it stops nagging.
  14. Robert Fahey

    Sudden Onset Patient Wants to Be Proactive

    Scary at first. Becomes a non-factor after a while. Do whatever it takes to rein in the anxiety.
  15. Robert Fahey

    Hello & Help pls

    This means our children are prone to T and will be affected by how we've handled it.
  16. Robert Fahey

    Medical Professional With Tinnitus

    Plenty of websites purport to have the miracle cure, um, after you forward your credit card information. This guy Avi might be full O' crap, but at least he's free of charge. So Avi, please ID yourself. Where do you work?
  17. Robert Fahey

    Hello & Help pls

    My father has it from working a printing press. I'm getting a hint that this is hereditary, eh?
  18. Robert Fahey

    Hello & Help pls

    You drive a dump truck. Post a You Tube video! Gotta see it.
  19. Robert Fahey

    Hello & Help pls

    You work machinery in a mine? And Piper plays bagpipes. I can't think of two worse scenarios for tinnitus. Sheesh. Anyway, I got it during a sinus infection a couple of years ago. I wasn't that unnerved by it until I reserached it and found it has a name and supposedly claims lives. Given my...
  20. Robert Fahey

    Learning to Live with Tinnitus

    Remember, folk like Karen and I are veterans who began equally shaken and lost. You feel handicapped, damaged, defective etc. All nonsense. There is no disease here. Just a new flaw and related short-term anxiety about it.
  21. Robert Fahey

    Hello & Help pls

    Actually, Jade, your original post shows how much T is affected by attitude. You were OK with your T until your mother gave you disturbing information -- then the T suddenly seemed more insidious. Well, the reverse applies too. Mitigating thoughts tend to mitigate the T. It's a paper tiger, I...
  22. Robert Fahey

    Hello & Help pls

    Piper and Jade, it seems you both have anxiety in your DNA, and the tinnitus is tapping into it. But if it weren't the tinnitus, it would be something else. The key is to treat the anxiety by any means possible. The more stable you are overall, the easier you can handle curve balls like tinnitus...
  23. Robert Fahey

    Negative association with high-pitched tones

    Here's a compilation of horror movie deaths. Notice a common strain through all of them? They all employ a high-pitched shrieking, scraping sound at the "money shot" to help raise our hackles. We associate such sounds with high tension, high suspense. Basically, high stress. It's no wonder we...
  24. Robert Fahey

    Trying to cope with Tinnitus

    It seems everyone hits their nadir after one or two months of T, then slowly recovers back to their old selves again. The T might still be there, but it becomes just another idiosyncrasy instead of an assault. You simply sidestep it after a while. But at first it seems impossible to sidestep...
  25. Robert Fahey

    Trying to cope with Tinnitus

    Getting mad at yourself is hard to avoid but is a step in the wrong direction. Life causes tinnitus, period. So many people have it, and learn to disregard it. Are you going through an anxious time in general, aside from the T?
  26. Robert Fahey

    Learning to Live with Tinnitus

    Anxiety/depression mimic other things and fool you. I suspect you've got a touch of both. You need to treat them and get your head screwed back on ASAP. Don't fear meds if a counselor suggests them. They can nudge your T to the back burner just enough.
  27. Robert Fahey

    Learning to Live with Tinnitus

    MRI showed nothing amiss? Could anxiety/depression be compromising your abilities lately?
  28. Robert Fahey

    MRI (Magnetic Resonance Imaging) Discussion & Experiences & Questions

    Treat the depression ASAP, and the tinnitus will move to the back burner where it belongs.
  29. Robert Fahey

    Update — Where I Am Now on My Tinnitus Road!

    Glad your old self is rising from the tar pit. Knew she was still under there, alive and breathing.
  30. Robert Fahey

    Update — Where I Am Now on My Tinnitus Road!

    Meds work. You'll be able to taper off eventually. Use a pill cutter (pharmacies sell for cheap), so you can taper in very small amounts.
  31. Robert Fahey

    Flying & Tinnitus

    When the plane starts the descent, hold your jaw wide open for the entire duration (about 25 mins is typical for a descent) until you're on the ground, even if it means using your hand to keep your jaw open. You'll look silly but it prevents the ear pressure. I've done it multiple times and it...
  32. Robert Fahey

    Update — Where I Am Now on My Tinnitus Road!

    You've treated the anxiety. Well done.
  33. Robert Fahey

    Causes of Subjective Tinnitus

    In other words, life itself.
  34. Robert Fahey

    Benzodiazepine Withdrawal-Induced Tinnitus

    Hugo1041, why were you using that drug in the first place?
  35. Robert Fahey

    New to forums

    You have the ammunition (meds) to fight this nonsense. Aim and fire.
  36. Robert Fahey

    Extreme tinnitus spike and ear pain

    Pain usually means something detectable and treatable. I'm confused.
  37. Robert Fahey

    New to forums

    Depression can cause very early awakenings, T or no T.
  38. Robert Fahey

    New to forums

    Emailed you back, but check spam folder.
  39. Robert Fahey

    New to forums

    If you want to move this dialogue over to rfahey@wobfm.com, I can respond faster. I'm keen on seeing you through this.
  40. Robert Fahey

    New to forums

    And you're talking a half-dose, but you are indeed sleeping through the night per normal? And you're able to nap sometimes during the day if you want?
  41. Robert Fahey

    New to forums

    Sounds like an acute depression, a fast-moving thunderstorm. I had the same, a few months after developing T. I wretched at the thought of leaving the house, going to work etc. Human contact was instant overload, as if I were at the absolute limit of stress. I hid in my basement for hours...
  42. Robert Fahey

    New to forums

    Piper, at this point how are these things going for you? 1. Getting a good night's sleep. 2. Eating normally. 3. Leaving the house regularly. 4. Engaging in activities you consider productive. I'm keen on following your progress.
  43. Robert Fahey

    New to forums

    You can't beat T by confronting it. You must sidestep it.
  44. Robert Fahey

    Bizarre Tinnitus Experience

    The fan acted as white noise. Stopping it brought T to the fore. Plus, you were finished working and listened for T.
  45. Robert Fahey

    New to forums

    Naps amplify it temporarily. Keep treating the anxiety. Eventually you will look back and shake your head at your overreaction.
  46. Robert Fahey

    New Guy with Tinnitus for One Week Looking for Advice

    I respect my ENT and neurologist for telling be bluntly that there's a million possible causes for T but no cure, and that there's no point in throwing prescriptions at it. Both suggested I treat the short-term anxiety instead, until I could adapt. I did so and never looked back. Not giving a...
  47. Robert Fahey

    New to forums

    Piper, antidepressants take weeks to have an effect. In the meantime, assuming you don't have an addictive personality and don't drink, you could ask for Lorazepam as a fast-acting, sanity-restoring solution while you wait for the antidepressants to take effect. That combo worked for me...
  48. Robert Fahey

    Tinnitus At 13

    Tyson, have you been to an ENT (ear/nose/throat) specialist yet? It might be something as simple as wax in your ears.
  49. Robert Fahey

    Worst Time of the Day?

    No doubt it's louder after a daytime nap or middle of the night, then returns to baseline. Oh well. When we exercise we hear our blood pumping through our heads whether we have T or not, and nobody is spooked. We also hear our loud respiration, again without fear. When we eat, that's pretty loud...
  50. Robert Fahey

    New to forums

    Wait -- a tumor? Sounds like it could be removed and the problem resolved, yes?
  51. Robert Fahey

    Four Months Now...

    Treat your anxiety with therapy and even meds. You need some short-term help.
  52. Robert Fahey

    Worried and Going Nuts

    That's my point. Ultimately you control the volume knob.
  53. Robert Fahey

    Worried and Going Nuts

    If you're not sure whether your T has intensified, it probably hasn't.
  54. Robert Fahey

    Ciprodex — Safe? Ototoxic? Are There Any Alternatives?

    The culprits are so many that theorizing about the cause of yours is futile. And repeat exposure to whatever caused it might have no effect a second time. In short, my advice is to sidestep it mentally and be grateful it's not a disease.
  55. Robert Fahey

    Tinnitus in Dreams

    At the nadir of my T experience, when it disrupted my sleep, I had three episodes of T-related dreams: 1. Bicyclist crushed by car, yelping like a dog in perfect time with my pulsating T as I awoke. 2. Pac-Man dying in the hallway outside my room. "Wer wer wer wer wer blot blot." 3. A ringing...
  56. Robert Fahey

    New to This — Just Starting on the Tinnitus Road

    When something rubs your flesh, you develop a callous. Well, T requires a callous on your brain, and you'll get one with time. Meanwhile, continue treating the anxiety. It's your primary obstacle, more important than the T itself, because it slows the formation of that callous.
  57. Robert Fahey

    Searching again, ending up here. :)

    Yes, tinnitus is so subjective that it's hard to rate its volume level. Your reaction seems to have an effect on the volume knob for sure. Your attitude toward life in general (confident or downtrodden) is worth another few clicks on the volume knob in either direction!
  58. Robert Fahey

    New to This — Just Starting on the Tinnitus Road

    Here's what got me out of your funk and back to the old "me" despite an acute bout with anxiety/depression, worse than yours I think, related to T: 1. Long-term solution was Zoloft, though it took about three weeks to do anything beneficial and it was a bumpy ride on the way to that plateau...
  59. Robert Fahey

    Pulsatile Tinnitus — Now on Tinnitus Talk

    Breathing/snoring Swallowing Chewing Bloodflow These are all audible bodily rhythms. In the worst case, if the pulsation stays with you, it will just join the soundtrack and you won't give it another thought. Karen and I can attest. Meanwhile, treat the anxiety if it's disrupting your sleep.