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  1. Phil-O

    Back to Silence

    Congratulations on the 9 years. Thanks again for sharing your successful strategy. Regards, Phil
  2. Phil-O

    Back to Silence

    Keep going, you'll get there. Regards, Phil
  3. Phil-O

    Back to Silence

    If it's a negative thought I guess I hear Terry's voice (I who love music) from his video saying "I don't hear my tinnitus" and sort of gives a lift. I don't think mine is / was as bad as his though so I keep going. Kind Regards, Phil
  4. Phil-O

    Back to Silence

    Terry's tinnitus is pretty bad as I understand. Here is his testimony and method explained:
  5. Phil-O

    Back to Silence

    Terry and his Back to Silence mindfulness helped me learn to cope in my early days of onset of tinnitus 5 years ago. There are definitely better days ahead. Regards, Phil
  6. Phil-O

    Back to Silence

    Hi Deb, I thought it would never work because as soon as I made a response there it was again, but persevered and slowly Tinnitus bothered less. May be partly habituation mainly getting weary of Tinnitus controlling you. I don't know. The responses became further apart as Terry says. Also you...
  7. Phil-O

    Back to Silence

    I followed Terry's Back to Silence and just said how I felt good or bad, make a note with a pencil in the book. So you concentrate how you feel not the noise. Terry will confirm. Good luck. Best Wishes Phil
  8. Phil-O

    Hello My Dear Tinnitus Talk Members

    Hi Glynis. Wish you all the very best, thanks for your help in the past, and for better times ahead. Kind Regards Phil_O
  9. Phil-O

    Back to Silence

    Takes time but keep going, when it starts to work try not to then listen out for the tinnitus. Best wishes Phil
  10. Phil-O

    Will.i.am

    Will.i.am health latest: The Voice judge’s painful health condition REVEALED WILL.I.AM is best known for founding and being the lead member of hip hop group The Black Eyed Peas and his successful music career has now led him to begin a judge on ITV’s The Voice. A few year ago he revealed his...
  11. Phil-O

    I Need Some Honest Comfort from You Guys Right Now

    @derpytia , Thinking of you, I know it's not easy but don't let the the T bully win. Best Wishes Phil
  12. Phil-O

    After a Reason to Hang In with Tinnitus

    I'm no expert but T does seems all consuming and frightening at onset and a very dark place. Positive stories on here and help from knowledgeable kind people does show there is life after T. As a certain Doctor and former contributor once said "Don't let T drive your bus". Although I agree it's...
  13. Phil-O

    After a Reason to Hang In with Tinnitus

    Plenty of great support here from members, check out @I who love music 's Back to Silence. This helped me and as far as I understand others beat the T bully. Best Wishes Phil
  14. Phil-O

    Tinnitus and Buying a Car? What Do I Need to Consider?

    Have to agree about Toyota. We are on our 3rd Toyota Yaris. The current one is 2012 the othere 2005 and 2001. All have been very reliable, Regards Phil
  15. Phil-O

    Success Stories Are the Best Thing on Tinnitus Talk

    Hi @coffee_girl. As one Dr and former TT contributor once said to me "Don't let T drive your bus". A phrase I remember from some years ago, albeit easier said than done sometimes. I have found a great deal of help too from TT. Good luck and Best Wishes Phil
  16. Phil-O

    [Danny Boy Memorial Fund] In Loving Memory of Danny Boy

    I am very sorry and saddened to hear this news. Danny was always ready to share his tinnitus knowledge and experience supporting other members. Condolences to his family. Phil
  17. Phil-O

    Support Group Worth Attending?

    Hi @Tweaker We have a quarterly support group at the education centre, Blackpool Victoria Hospital . The next meeting is Thurs 10th May 2018 at 1:30pm. The sessions are run by Alan Kenyon, Hearing Therapist, Blackpool Teaching Hospitals NHS Foundation Trust. Regards Phil
  18. Phil-O

    Announcement Welcoming Glynis as a New Moderator of Tinnitus Talk

    Hi @glynis really happy you are moderating. I know you will do a great job. Best Wishes Phil
  19. Phil-O

    Acquiring a Positive Mindset

    Hi @glynis , in our thoughts. Hope you are back on form soon. Best Wishes Phil
  20. Phil-O

    Poll: Have You Experienced a Permanent Worsening of Your Tinnitus?

    Hi @TheDanishGirl I am in a much better place than when my T started about 3 years ago. Especially grateful to all the experienced members on here who kindly pass on their help, coping strategies, and advice freely. Too many to mention. Not to forget the guys who make the site. I thought it...
  21. Phil-O

    Tinnitus for 22 Years and Now This...

    Hi @Rosemerry Good luck. Make T unimportant in your life. Best Wishes Phil
  22. Phil-O

    Frightened and Scared

    Hi @Pomme, @billie48 has given some great advice. I (and many more) felt like you on first onset, panic, fear and despair, but you will get through this although it takes time. WNGs are a help, and also try this from Terry aka @I who love music...
  23. Phil-O

    Tinnitus for 22 Years and Now This...

    Hi @Rosemerry , Terry aka @I who love music is a hero. I've found the method helps you to feel empowered to do something positive and push T into the background. It may there but you don't listen to it, and then as you get on with your life the more it goes into the background. It does take time...
  24. Phil-O

    Tinnitus for 22 Years and Now This...

    Hi @Bex274 Could be the anxiety. Here's an interesting article:- “Stress is the main thing that affects tinnitus. Tinnitus is generated in the part of the brain called the Limbic system. The Limbic system controls our emotions: love, hate, fear etc and these all involve STRESS. Stress feeds...
  25. Phil-O

    Massive Setback/Worsening

    Hi @Sen Had a bit of a spike the other day. Own fault setting up a PA system, forgot to set the gain/ volume control to off! Instant earache, usually so careful, have ear defenders everywhere. Fortunately settled down after a few days, so you should be ok in a short while. Best wishes Phil
  26. Phil-O

    Need Help from People Who Actually Have Tinnitus

    Hi @Budger608. Just seen your post too. Read Michael's testimony and check this out from Terry. Both helped me lots. Best wishes Phil https://www.tinnitustalk.com/threads/back-to-silence.7172/
  27. Phil-O

    Just to Let You Know — My Mum Is Seriously Ill

    Hi @glynis so sorry to hear your news. Our thoughts are with you. Phil and family
  28. Phil-O

    Just to Let You Know — My Mum Is Seriously Ill

    Hi @glynis Thinking about you. Best wishes and prayers,Phil and family
  29. Phil-O

    New Tinnitus Sufferer

    Hi @TheDanishGirl Listen to @Zug @Michael Leigh , @glynis and the others. Read the success stories and try @I who love music 's Back to silence. We have all been there, you will overcome this, albeit takes time. Best wishes Phil
  30. Phil-O

    Aripiprazole (Abilify): Case Reports of Diminishing/Lowering Tinnitus

    Hi @Quiet please. Saw this comment the other day somewhere, could have been on here :- Stress is the main thing that affects tinnitus. Tinnitus is generated in the part of the brain called the Limbic system. The Limbic system controls our emotions: love, hate, fear etc and these all involve...
  31. Phil-O

    People's Experiences on Spikes

    Hi @amymilly , had a spike recently set off being too near a loud PA system. lasted a few days. Initially set off reminders of early onset panic, but as I relaxed and calmed down returned to baseline. I do have behind ear white noise generators set just below the T to help distract. Read...
  32. Phil-O

    Terrified, Despondent...

    It is crazy but keep reading the positive stories on here, Billie48. Michael Leigh and Terrys aka @I who love music "Back to Silence" method. It's one of the proactive way to help get through this. I'm 2 years on and managing much better than at onset. Best wishes Phil
  33. Phil-O

    My Tinnitus Is Now 24/7

    Hi Check out @Michael Leigh notes about computer use. this may help. Best wishes Phil
  34. Phil-O

    Never Thought I'd Be Here

    @Emmi Great news and Thanks for posting. Best wishes Phil
  35. Phil-O

    One Year with Tinnitus and I Am More Scared Than Ever

    Hi @Emmi I have had T for about 20 months, so can't advise you too much, but know exactly how you feel. There are many wise experienced people on here who will definitely support you through this journey. Their advice shows how the brain will filter out and start to neither focus on it, nor see...
  36. Phil-O

    Hello I'm New

    Hi @nsw22 I have had T for about 18 months, so can't advise you too much, but know exactly how you feel. There are many wise experienced people on here who will definitely support you through this journey. Their advice shows how the brain will filter out and start to neither focus on it, nor see...
  37. Phil-O

    F*ck You Tinnitus

    Hi @Zug Well done!
  38. Phil-O

    Noticing a Trend in My Habituation...

    @Marie79 Absolutely know exactly how you feel. I use @I who love music 's Back to Silence method , it takes time , determination and patience, but does help. When it works it's magic there is a strong temptation to listen for T! And this is definitely a bad habit to break. Sometimes I still use...
  39. Phil-O

    Half a Year and I Think I May Go Mad

    Hi @Liztintin I have had T for about 12 months, so can't advise you too much, but know exactly how you feel. There are many wise experienced people on here who will definitely support you through this journey. Their advice how the brain will filter out and start to neither focus on it, nor see...
  40. Phil-O

    In Memory of My Dad

    Hi @glynis Sending my condolences Glynis. My thoughts are with you. Kindest Regards Phil
  41. Phil-O

    To My Dear Tinnitus Family

    Hi @glynis Sorry to hear your news. Our thoughts are with you. Kind Regards Phil
  42. Phil-O

    Feeling Blue — One Year Anniversary with Tinnitus

    Hi @Christina Sorry to see your T & H has not got better. @I who love music still plays music despite this conditon. Perhaps he can advise you. Best wishes Phil
  43. Phil-O

    Newbie... Sad, Scared, Pissed, and Can't Stop Researching!

    Hi @denise w. Don't be too disappointed if BTS takes a while. After several months I am down to 15 -20 responses a day and the responses are less depressive, sad, nervous and anxious. The fact you can do the BTS method makes you feel hopeful and gives you something proactive to do. There will be...
  44. Phil-O

    Newbie... Sad, Scared, Pissed, and Can't Stop Researching!

    Hi @denise w. Thanks for the reply. Here's a direct link to the new back to silence video. It's hard to explain, it does take time, and how it works I don't know, but it's a good place to start to feeling better. Kind regards Phil
  45. Phil-O

    Newbie... Sad, Scared, Pissed, and Can't Stop Researching!

    Hi @denise w. I have had T for about 12 months, so can't advise you too much, but know exactly how you feel. There are many wise experienced people on here who will definitely support you through this journey. Their advice how the brain will filter out and start to neither focus on it, nor see T...
  46. Phil-O

    Very Sad and Scared About Tinnitus

    Hi @Mel295 I have had T for about 12 months, so can't advise you too much, but know exactly how you feel. There are many wise experienced people on here who will definitely support you through this journey. Their advice how the brain will filter out and start to neither focus on it, nor see T...
  47. Phil-O

    Scared and Panicked

    Hi @Lorritay I have had T for about 12 months, so can't advise you too much, but know exactly how you feel. There are many wise experienced people on here who will definitely support you through this journey. Their advice how the brain will filter out and start to neither focus on it, nor see T...
  48. Phil-O

    This Just Started 5 Months Ago!

    Hi @Sue2 I understand how you feel. I do not go out so much since onset of T, including to church. I think T takes your confidence and independence. As well as using Back to Silence method I find I still use my behind ear white noise generators. It also helps put T more into the background. Hope...
  49. Phil-O

    New to Tinnitus, Since November 2015

    Hi @Jovita1969 There are many wise, experienced and caring people on here who will definitely support you through this journey. Their advice has helped me lots. In the meantime check out the success stories, they certainly show how there's light at the end of the tunnel. Although it does take...
  50. Phil-O

    This Just Started 5 Months Ago!

    Hi @Sue2 I am so sorry to hear about your sad loss. There are many wise, experienced and caring people on here who will definitely support you through this journey. Their advice has helped me lots. In the meantime check out the success stories, they certainly show how there's light at the end...
  51. Phil-O

    Hi All

    Hi @Padresstar I have had T for about 11 months, so can't advise you too much, but know exactly how you feel. There are many wise experienced people on here who will definitely support you through this journey. Their advice shows how the brain will filter out and start to neither focus on it...
  52. Phil-O

    How Many Are Using Back to Silence with Success?

    Hi @Bobby B @I who love music That's my problem exactly. When the method starts to do its magic I get lazy and let the T volume thoughts back in. Need to be more resolute. Regards Phil
  53. Phil-O

    Hello

    Hi @JenniferM I have had T for about 10 months, so can't advise you too much, but know exactly how you feel. There are many wise experienced people on here who will definitely support you through this journey. Their advice how the brain will filter out and start to neither focus on it, nor see...
  54. Phil-O

    I'm Here, and I Have Tinnitus

    Hi @Samantha8 I have had T for about 10 months, so can't advise you too much, but know exactly how you feel. There are many wise experienced people on here who will definitely support you through this journey. Their advice how the brain will filter out and start to neither focus on it, nor see...
  55. Phil-O

    Back to Silence

    Hi @I who love music That's the hard bit. When you get a glimmer of success there's a great temptation to check to see if it has actually gone. The worst time seems to be on awakening in a morning when you are off guard. What we are doing seems to me like the computer equivalent of creating an...
  56. Phil-O

    Has Anyone Come Off Sertraline (Zoloft), Got Tinnitus, Went Back on It With Tinnitus Going Away?

    Hi @Hotaru I have had T for about 10 months, so can't advise you too much, but know exactly how you feel. There are many wise experienced people on here who will definitely support you through this journey. Their advice how the brain will filter out and start to neither focus on it, nor see T as...
  57. Phil-O

    Back to Silence

    Hi @I who love music, Is he trying to say it's no longer a 'sauce' of concern?:) Regards Phil
  58. Phil-O

    2 Weeks Until Due Date...

    Hi @Natalie Roberts I have followed your story and if you keep to your strategy of mindfulness / CBT you will be fine. My inspiration is @I who love music who shows there's light at the end of the tunnel with his brand of mindfulness. Although it takes time. Wishing you every happiness for the...
  59. Phil-O

    How Many Are Using Back to Silence with Success?

    I have been doing BTS for several months, some success, but need to be more consistent / determined. Anxiety and depression do make it harder. Regards Phil
  60. Phil-O

    Pretty Scared — Tinnitus from Cloxacillin

    Hi @Andrew Naylor I have had T for about 10 months, so can't advise you too much, but know exactly how you feel. There are many wise experienced people on here who will definitely support you through this journey. Their advice has helped me lots. In the meantime check out the success stories...