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  1. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    Yup. That's how it's done.
  2. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    Hi everyone, I hope you're hanging in there and finding relief somewhere somehow. Terry
  3. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    Hello everyone! It's nice to see the folks here having good results using the method. Today I was awarded a nine year trophy for my attendance here on the forum. I don't check in here much anymore, please forgive me, tinnitus isn't on my mind anymore... thanks to the method. Good luck, see...
  4. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    That's it in a nutshell, Sarah. I'm convinced everyone can have success at this as long as they follow the rules and don't give up. I guess not following rules and quitting is the way for a lot of people because I see they continue to describe and gauge the sounds, and they want to combine this...
  5. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    OOPS. We don't describe tinnitus. That's the old way. - Terry
  6. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    Hey, how's everyone doing? Back To Silence rocks, right? Don't forger - stick to it and do it do it. Terry
  7. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    Hi, Ya, I've got (had) the distortion since about 1975. Tinnitus, Distortion, and hyperacousis. My T and distortion rise and fall together usually after exposure to loud sounds. BTS is a way for me to distract from T sounds. Distortion can't be ignored, by me. When I'm going thru times of the...
  8. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    Your post is interesting. Ya, I've also found that playing music is a 'release' from tinnitu, but in my case.... Oh, the tinnitus and the distortion that came with it put me out of commission for a few years. From one musician to another, I wish you great luck for the future and I hope the...
  9. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    Too much sugar or too much snoring trigger my hyperacusis which I notice once every three months or so. I doesn't seem related to my T. Or it could be. I don't really know. But overall I notice H much less.
  10. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    Hi Hazel, I've been itching to make another video, ya. If there's just one person that achieves some success, It would be worth my visits here. I'm glad to help. I'm so glad this site exists because this is where I learned about this method in the first place. -Terry
  11. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    Hi lizzy, I'd be surprised if after doing the method you didn't see a change in your responses. Fear is natural I suppose, and you can take that as a sign that the emotional amygdala part of your brain is running the show. One pencil and one small notebook just might change your life. Hang in...
  12. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    Hey everybody, This is my first indoor performance since I started the Back To Silence method. No problems. Didn't hear my tinnitus, didn't think about it. It was noisy. Kids yelling, jingle bells jingling, my hurdy gurdy screaming, the flute in my right ear, and I kicked my drum so hard and...
  13. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    Hey Winhawk, You're in a place a lot of folks want to be. And I'm there now. Thanks for your comment. Terry
  14. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    Hi Henry, Got your pencil and paper? This step removes the emotional impluse from one area of the brain to another, where there is not emotion involved. No worry, no fear, no anxiety. Good luck, Terry
  15. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    1) Decide when to "make your mark" when it REALLY bugs you. You're right. We can't make a million marks a day. 2) Your tinnitus sounds serious like mine. I suggest writing down an honest emotion along with each mark, AFTER stating the emotion to yourself... "I feel scared." 3) As long as you're...
  16. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO ME !! Five years ago tomorrow I recorded my Back To Silence video which appears on page one of this thread. I was in sort of a fragile state of mind then and I can see that on my face in the video. Wow, things have changed for me in the last five years. My "healing"...
  17. I who love music

    I would say filtered out so I can't hear it. if I listen FOR it, it reappears. The inner ear...

    I would say filtered out so I can't hear it. if I listen FOR it, it reappears. The inner ear hair cells were blaster away years ago. I'll have clinical tinnitus forever.
  18. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    1) Stop thinking about, and reacting to tinnitus as you have been. Just stop. 2) State your feeling when your T is bothersome. 3) Write this stuff down and review them over time. Hopefully the new reactions fade over time. Success comes when they do. Simple.
  19. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    Apparently when we feel irritated, panicky, depressed, mad, or sad about tinnitus, it's because of the reaction of the amygdala part of the brain. Those feelings remain and even build if the reaction is "I wish...I hope...Oh no...What if.." But to ACKNOWLEDGE the feeling in a NEW way by stating...
  20. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    Hi Julia, Three simple steps and will to do them, that's all it takes. What exactly is this method? Some kind of redirection?
  21. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    Yup, I agree, this is simply a way to kick start habituataion.
  22. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    Mine was very bad when I started this method so I decided to pick the times when the T really really bugged me, because after all I can't be playing with a pencil all day.
  23. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    GREAT!!!
  24. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    Hey Sally, Sounds like you're doing great. And you can tell others how NOT to tweak the method, but to simply do it and give it time to work.
  25. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    Hang in there.
  26. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    Hi juliaFB, It was a psychologist who explained how this works to me. Very casually he said, Oh ya, it works great for many behaviors, smoking included. The first few days are weeks are the toughest. But it worked for me.
  27. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    I think you're very lucky not to feel the anxiety so many folks do. But if you want to do the method, I guess just say "I feel nothing."
  28. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    Tinnitus really stinks when you're a musician. I have to avoid loud concerts for the rest of my life but I'm back to playing music on non-industrial PA systems. In fact, yesterday we played for a few hundred people surrounded by monitors onstage with a lot of low and mid feedback but I'm OK today.
  29. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    Hello, I couldn't respond to ALL of my tinnitus, so when it was most intrusive or upset me the most, that's when I marked my responses. It was a hard fight at first not responding the old way but as the days and months went by, the need to respond at all just went away.
  30. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    I don't visit this site much anymore. My 40 year old miserable tinnitus is totally under control. Is it loud? OH YA. Do I hear it? Nope, only when I listen for it. Very high pitched in the right ear, a little lower in the left, with swirly sounds and low hum, and crackling once in a while. Now...
  31. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    three simple steps and the will to do them it's that easy
  32. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    I think writing down the emotion, even part of the time helps you see how the number of responses AND the emotions that accompany them change over time, and that is empowering. The empowerment will excite you and keep you going. You have to keep going until you don't respond anymore. It's...
  33. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    Hello everyone, Terry here, also known as "I who love music." In fact, I love music so much that I'm making a musical instrument called a hurdy gurdy. The instrument itself is loud and making it has been a noisy affair, using all my power tools I have at hand. A few years ago I wouldn't have...
  34. I who love music

    Coffee/Caffeine

    Coffee raises it to a volume I do hear, makes me crazy tired a few hours later too.
  35. I who love music

    Coffee/Caffeine

    I avoid caffeine like the plague.
  36. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    Age 12 to 16. I played the drums and practiced with very loud music in headphones. In the early 70's.
  37. I who love music

    Does Mindfulness Meditation Help Reduce Tinnitus Volume?

    How long did you try it? Did you notice your responses getting fewer? Just trying to help. Terry
  38. I who love music

    Marriage, Wedding Life and Tinnitus

    For forty years my wife has been sympathetic and helpful when I had bad T times. She's great. Hey, try this... https://www.tinnitustalk.com/threads/back-to-silence.7172/
  39. I who love music

    Obsessing About What Could Have Caused It

    Yes, I used to do it all the time. But we can't go backwards, only forwards. Try this method, it worked for me - https://www.tinnitustalk.com/threads/back-to-silence.7172/
  40. I who love music

    "Full" Recovery from Tinnitus — Not an Actual Possibility?

    I don't have studies to show, but I have a story about ridding 98 percent of my T. And it's based in science. Good luck, Terry https://www.tinnitustalk.com/threads/back-to-silence.7172/
  41. I who love music

    Listen or Not to Listen to Tinnitus?

    https://www.tinnitustalk.com/threads/back-to-silence.7172/
  42. I who love music

    Does Mindfulness Meditation Help Reduce Tinnitus Volume?

    A few years ago I tried a thing that requires sitting alone in a quiet room, listening hard OVER the T for silence. I thought it worked a little, maybe 20 percent. But I got about 98 percent relief from a different method that I learned here, and I did a video about it. Good luck, Terry...
  43. I who love music

    A Month and a Half in with My Tinnitus — Anxiety to Deep Depression Transition?

    Seeing a doctor is good. Now take some action yourself. This worked for me and hopefully for you too. https://www.tinnitustalk.com/threads/back-to-silence.7172/
  44. I who love music

    Tinnitus for 18 Plus Years

    My friend, George, said his tinnitus was "gone" after he started wearing the hearing aids because he's now hard of hearing. I imagine with external sounds being so much more audible for him now, his T is in the background.
  45. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    UPDATE: Wow, it's been a while since my last "update." This method saved my sanity and changed me for the better. For the new folks, let me give you a rundown of my history and give you some hope so maybe you can try this method. *As a boy I played a lot of loud music on drums and guitar. *At...
  46. I who love music

    It works. What's up?

    It works. What's up?
  47. I who love music

    Hi When I was "busy" I'd just say "content." This really works. Keep up the good work, it gets...

    Hi When I was "busy" I'd just say "content." This really works. Keep up the good work, it gets easier. Terry
  48. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    Your post demonstrates how the reactions diminish. It's very encouraging for others to read this. Thank you.
  49. I who love music

    Habituation for High Pitched Tinnitus

    Hi Ben, I MADE myself habituate ... https://www.tinnitustalk.com/threads/back-to-silence.7172/
  50. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    Hey folks, I was in the hospital for 3 days for a ruptured appendix. Guess what? Even in that dead quiet environment I never heard or thought about my tinnitus once. I can't say enough good things about this method!!!!!!!!!
  51. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    Sounds like you're doing great. It gets easier as you go and the day will come when you say, "Hey I didn't hear it til lunchtime!" But you won't listen to it. You'll just make your mark and keep going.
  52. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    My predicament is EXACTLY like yours. No more loud concerts for me. I use protection in any super loud environment but live care free amidst all the normal everyday sounds. I never in my dreams thought I would make it this far. It's truly great hearing your story!
  53. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    Hi Jim, As step one says, quit thinking about tinnitus the old way. So, I quit masking. I think masking made me wonder, "How's the tinnitus doing?" When the masking was turned off. Like you, I had physical problems from tinnitus; anxiety, sleeplessness, loss of appetite, etc... This method...
  54. I who love music

    Back to Silence

    Sharpen your pencil, SallyT. Do it right and you'll be amazed.
  55. I who love music

    For Those Who Have Habituated... How Do You Control It?

    There's a video about it on the first page of the Back To Silence thread. It works for me.
  56. I who love music

    Advice Welcome!

    Back To Silence in the success stories
  57. I who love music

    What Is Habituation?

    This is ... https://www.tinnitustalk.com/threads/back-to-silence.7172/#post-81327
  58. I who love music

    Safe Anxiety Meds?

    This is safe.. https://www.tinnitustalk.com/threads/back-to-silence.7172/#post-81327
  59. I who love music

    When Your Tinnitus Is Really Bothering You, What Do You Say to Yourself to Calm Down?

    This.. https://www.tinnitustalk.com/threads/back-to-silence.7172/#post-81327
  60. I who love music

    I'm Feeling Alone

    Yes. But the method has to be done correctly. It gave me my life back, I'm even playing semi-loud music again. Because as you know, I love music. I tell everyone it can help them too. I'm confident it will. Because, good lord, if it helped me and my bad condition I had for years, and every...