- Feb 17, 2017
- 10,400
- Tinnitus Since
- February, 2017
- Cause of Tinnitus
- Acoustic Trauma
It is possible that had you made better choices, your tinnitus would have been gone many years ago.Give it time? I've tinnitus for 13 years.
Isn't concert merely an acronym for tinnitus generator?
You'll get nothing but negativity here from people that don't go to concerts.
Ultimately people are shown the data and make their choices in life. Life is largely a choice with a lot of luck in the mix which affects outcome. Take motorcycle riding. Most that do it know the risks. I have lost friends to riding motorcycles. I love motorcycles and have built them...some even from scratch at a young age. I decided after too many close calls on the road for me to hang up riding after many years.I do appreciate everyone's advice. Of course I know that regarding my hearing, it's the best decision not to go, that's obvious. And your advice will always be the best and the smartest thing to do. However, people should also be informed how to take the stupid decision in the best way possible. It's like bungee jumping, obviously people are safer not doing it, but for the sake of having fun and living people want to know what precautions to take. I am aware that I am taking a risk, however I am very cautious with the risk I'm taking. I have purchased the best hearing protection I could find for this. I have actually tested out how well it works at home, by cranking up my speaker to a 100 dB while wearing them and see how I was doing and how well they worked, which was pretty good.
I also have an actual decibelmeter with me that will show me how loud the concert is in seconds, which allows me to navigate where I should stand and if I should possibly leave. If my dbmeter shows 100 dB I don't see a reason to not just stay and enjoy myself, wearing the quality hearing protection I've purchased. However if it shows 120 dB I'll be sensible enough to walk out, despite me loving this band very much. Also my tinnitus is somatic for the most part, and probably not just hearing damage. Obviously I don't know what will happen. But I've rarely been to concerts in my life, and since my tinnitus I've only been out at loud places a few times. In hindsight those times were actually a lot more risky than this, because I just wore silicone earplugs back then that maybe filtered out 19 dB at best, and wasn't wearing this bitchin' hearing protection I have now haha.
I definitely understand where you're coming from. And I definitely don't want to seem disrespectful or anything of everyone's experiences here. I'm trying to have common sense about it. All of your comments weigh on my mind and definitely contribute to me being super cautious during the concert, and I'm still doubtful about going tbh. And if it does affect my tinnitus I'll probably regret it definitely, but at least I've taken all the precautions I can and haven't been careless and reckless about going to the concert. I won't be standing at the front without hearing protection, and I'll definitely leave if I feel uncomfortable or if the volume is too high.Ultimately people are shown the data and make their choices in life. Life is largely a choice with a lot of luck in the mix which affects outcome. Take motorcycle riding. Most that do it know the risks. I have lost friends to riding motorcycles. I love motorcycles and have built them...some even from scratch at a young age. I decided after too many close calls on the road for me to hang up riding after many years.
Statistically I personally believe bungee jumping is safer than riding motorcycles or going to a concert with tinnitus.
My opinion. What we do with age because we almost have to is...find things in life that fulfill us as much as some of the things that hurt us in ways that degrade our lives. You mentioned you have gone to very few concerts. That means not going to one more will not affect your life much. But this is your decision and a strong part of me is in your camp, live your life. But with this incredible scourge called tinnitus, I would not make your personal choice. We have such little control about it. But Greg Clarke makes the perfect argument to going. A compelling argument.
We are given the info, and make our choices. I personally would rather bungee jump.
But a counter argument to Greg because much of his life is centered on music and concert going which I completely understand btw, is if Greg hasn't ridden a motorcycle...say a 1 liter supersport race bike at 150 mph, he hasn't lived. To deny himself that level of exhilaration in life, is a life unfulfilled. Or jumping out of an airplane. Or climbing Mt. Everest. Or swimming the English channel. Or run a marathon. See the flaw in the argument?
I have been prone to some high risk behavior throughout my life. I really shouldn't be here. I grew up building race cars and raced them in so many places I shouldn't have. My friends too. We crashed a few times a long the way...me more times than I care to think about including a roll over and some how by pure luck most of us survived. A couple of my friends didn't. Many of my friends were car and motorcycle racers.
To me this tinnitus thing just completely sucks and I of all people hate avoidance behavior more than most, but I am a bit careful about my hearing because I hate tinnitus so much. That said, I am not Michael anti headphone careful.
I listen to my 100 gig music collection all the time through headphones at reasonable listening levels. Few love music as much as me. All genres. My mother was a violinist.
A good conversation to have. Hope your earplugs do what they are can. I know you will survive on some level. Question is, at what peril to your tinnitus? Personally, I don't want to take the chance of affecting mine by 1%. I don't want further degradation to my life or this risk. Yes, I want to live my life to its fullest...but with common sense based upon my physiology. Keep in mind that tinnitus is a brain disorder. As often reported here and as personally experienced, just thinking about it being affected can make it worse.
Good luck...what we all need.
So if I don't drink and drive, and a person posts that he plans to get wasted tomorrow and go for a drive, it's not ok for me to post arguments against that plan?Most of you don't go to concerts or play in bands yet you see fit to tell others like the original poster not to go and hit a show.
There is a chance that you ensured that your tinnitus will stay, and now you are encouraging others to do this trade (a couple of hours of fun in exchange for a lifetime of tinnitus).thanks anyway for trying to make me feel some kind of regret over having Tinnitus.
ROFLI'm trying to have common sense about it.
Sometimes it is live and learn. Don't touch! That is hot! I told you. Very sad.
@Bill Bauer The drinking and driving analogy is preposterous.
Bill, you don't have the experience I do. I'm qualified to give a reasonable opinion on it as I've had these experiences and lived with Tinnitus a long time. I'm not telling anyone what to do. People make up their own minds, if it were me I'd take the advice from the guy that actually does it.
If people wanted a list of things they shouldn't do or advice on staying at home 24-7 or even to be told how to "blame yourself" or to have pointed out how easily you could've avoided a lifetime of Tinnitus with a bunch of hindsight rectifications I'd point them in your direction.
And I wonder why I bother to interact with guys as simple as you. You don't get it. You believe tinnitus is the same for everybody. It isn't. I just told you I am profoundly different than you. My hearing is sound sensitive. With foam ear plugs I get ear pain at concert volume levels. Are you really too dense to understand this? ACTUAL EXPERIENCE. There, I even capitalized it for you.I do wonder why I bother. This site was a great help to me at one stage is probably the main reason, people always complained that there wasn't enough success stories or how come there are musicians that are able to cope etc. So I thought I'd post actual experience whenever possible.
I disagree with you, most people with Tinnitus don't bother with forums. The bass player in one of my bands is an example, Tinnitus is pretty bad but copes and it's never gotten worse through additional playing and performing, I know loads of people in the same boat, the industry is riddled with it. Anyway, you guys all seem to know better even though you don't attend shows or play in bands so I'll leave it at that knowing that people who are struggling and into music have experts here willing to part with amazing information.
If anyone reading is in similar position and wants to talk to someone who's had Tinnitus for a long time yet continues to enjoy concerts and perform drop me a line. I'd be happy to exchange experience via email.
And the 'simple' counterpoint to you is, you can be at something a long time and still be clueless...lol.And you say I'm simple? When did I ever say it's the same for everyone? Big assumption there.
Too dense to understand??? What are you 12?
With all due respect you have Tinnitus for 5 minutes. Come back to me on this topic when you've a few more miles on the clock and you've done a bit of reading yourself. Glass houses and all.
The only thing that might be wrong with it is that drinking and driving might end up in Other people being hurt too. This isn't going to happen when one takes risks by exposing him/herself to noise.The drinking and driving analogy is preposterous.
Have you seen the post below?I'm qualified to give a reasonable opinion on it as I've had these experiences and lived with Tinnitus a long time.
It is possible that you are fortunate enough to be part of the highly resilient group. I read enough posts to know that that low resiliency group exists. There is only one way to find out whether one is part of the low resiliency group, and it is the Hard way...I didn't read all the above comments, but did peruse a fair amount of it, and ran across many good points on both sides of the argument. What strikes me is there seems to be an underlying assumption (of course I may be wrong on this) that all brains and neurological systems are created equal. The way I see it, that's simply not the case, so everybody's way of dealing with tinnitus and/or hyperacusis is going to have to be highly individualized.
I read a book many years ago called "Adrenal Syndrome". A lot of the book touched on the residual resiliency of people's adrenal glands as they respond to life's stresses. Very low resiliency often resulted in months/years of chronic debilitating exhaustion following a stressful event(s) in their lives. Very high resiliency indicated essentially the opposite. The author broke this down into some rough numbers:
25% of people have low resiliency, meaning normal life stressors will often send them into some degree of a tailspin.
25% of people have high resiliency, meaning that no matter how severe a stressor comes into their lives, they will be able to cope without becoming debilitated to any degree.
50% of people fall somewhere inbetween.
I believe there are some kind of corresponding numbers for a person's brain and neurological resiliency as well, which can greatly affect the ability to cope with tinnitus. (I believe adrenal resiliency also plays a major role in our ability to cope). -- Based on these assumptions, it's pretty easy for me to conclude that what may be overprotection for one person will be underprotection for another, and vice versa.
I think the main point to understand for someone new to tinnitus is that their path forward is going to be a lot of "testing the waters". Generally, IMHO, it's going to take a few weeks or months to get important insights that will help us achieve a healthy balance. In all likelihood, most people are going to learn from experience when their over-protecting or under-protecting.
I've come to believe however, that in those early months, if one is going to err in either direction, it should be toward overprotection. It just seems to me the consequences of underprotection (which could result in permanent injury) in those early times are much more dire than the consequences of overprotection--which as I understand, generally results in temporary setbacks.
Doing a number of things to better support the brain and neurological system and the body's stress response (adrenal glands) is quite high on my list of recommendations I would make to anybody with tinnitus. Doing so might even prevent phonophobia or OCD, etc., as we go through our learning curves -- Just my 2 cents worth.
What are you talking about?or advice on staying at home 24-7
When people get, say, diabetes, they ought to want to know a list of things that they should avoid doing/eating now that they have diabetes.If people wanted a list of things they shouldn't do
When you made a blanket statement that it is ok to attend concerts.When did I ever say it's the same for everyone?
Possible I have been to more concerts than you. I am really old.
Maybe not. Been to a lot. Love music. Not a big metal guy tho. Like some of it.Doubt it.
I don't care if I pissed you off. Could care less. Your intellect is in play if you are engaging me. I am rather proud of my intellect and have the academic credentials to prove it. You want to continue your narrative? I'm your huckleberry to coin a famous movie.Look mate I didn't come on to have a go or get personal with anyone but you pissed me off calling intellect into question. I never dismissed anyone else's experiences just annoyed that people without the relevant experience being overly negative.
"If you want to continue 'your' dismal of other accounts that is fine."
Classic, calls my intellect into question then writes the above. Looks like you need English lessons.
Do you deny that everything on the web is wrong? Do you believe that boomers have disproportionately more tinnitus than the previous generation due to increased sound exposure?"You will be met with big backlash is all because off all the data available that says that loud sound.."
Another grammatical error there chump. Now don't talk to me about data, I'm a scientist, majored in chemistry and statistics. I've read tonnes of papers on Tinnitus, related studies, demographics you name it...
I'd love to know what the sources are for "all the data" you're referring to..... I'd bet money on it being a bunch of stuff you've read on the net.