Thanks @Daniel Lion. You're a sweetie
I am so sorry that you are housebound. After reading about 5 or 6 stories here, I decided I would not be housebound, so I started doing the things that make me happy. I now take walks regularly and find places where the sound is not loud. I coached baseball for 15 years and must be very careful since baseball games can be horribly loud.Thanks @Daniel Lion. You're a sweetie
I'm depressed. I'm mostly housebound these days. Between this bloody noise and being stuck inside, I feel like I'm going crazy.
I'm sorry to hear that. Depression is something that takes hold of you to the point you don't know who you are anymore. I get out when I know noise will be a bare minimum. I know it's hard to motivate yourself, but try and stay strong.Thanks @Daniel Lion. You're a sweetie
I'm depressed. I'm mostly housebound these days. Between this bloody noise and being stuck inside, I feel like I'm going crazy.
Since getting tinnitus seven years ago, I have had several mental breakdowns... I can even diagnose them and treat myself with rest and medications without seeing a doctorYep... today's one of those days.
That's good news.I can even diagnose them and treat myself with rest and medications without seeing a doctor
I've been thinking about you today, trying to brainstorm ideas that might help. Being housebound isn't ideal—what can you do to get out more? Are you staying indoors because of noise outside, or has it become a habit, driven by fear or routine? Both are difficult cycles to break, but spending time outdoors is crucial for your health, rehabilitation, mood, and spirit.Thanks @Daniel Lion. You're a sweetie
I'm depressed. I'm mostly housebound these days. Between this bloody noise and being stuck inside, I feel like I'm going crazy.
Bloody hell @Daniel Lion! Okay... no mention of shagging @ZFire. Got it, lol!!!I've been thinking about you today, trying to brainstorm ideas that might help. Being housebound isn't ideal—what can you do to get out more? Are you staying indoors because of noise outside, or has it become a habit, driven by fear or routine? Both are difficult cycles to break, but spending time outdoors is crucial for your health, rehabilitation, mood, and spirit.
If noise is the issue, try getting up before sunrise. Drink some water, do some stretches or arm lifts to get the blood flowing, and eat a bit of raw garlic before having tea or coffee. Head out early, while it's still quiet, and stay out for about an hour. Later, find a spot to sit in the sun for 10 to 15 minutes.
If you're dealing with physical limitations that make this difficult, tailor the plan to your needs. Start simple and gradually build up. Even sitting in the sun in a wheelchair can be beneficial.
I don't like the thought of you being stuck inside, and it breaks my heart. Focus on what you can control.
Noise can be a real challenge, but distractions can help your mind temporarily forget it. Painting, sculpting in clay, or chatting with friends are great ways to keep busy.
Don't forget to take your hot baths with candles, and if possible, try a sauna or steam room—they're even better.
Let's work on breaking the depression. Your recovery is important to me and everyone around you.
What do you want to do? What do you enjoy? What do you think might help?
And please, don't mention shagging @ZFire—he's too far away and might already be spoken for.
Love you, @tpj. I'm here to help.
I understand.Bloody hell @Daniel Lion! Okay... no mention of shagging @ZFire. Got it, lol!!!
Daniel, I truly appreciate your care and concern for me. I just need time to grieve the loss of my old life.
Yes, I'm mostly inside because of noise. As bad as my tinnitus is, I think the hyperacusis is worse. If it wasn't for that, maybe I could still live a somewhat normal life. I'll keep your suggestions in mind, though.
Thank you @Bob3382 and @Jcb for your messages. It's good to see you again @Jcb.
Love you, @Daniel Lion. I'm so happy you're doing well. Please, don't worry about me. I just need some time.
Well, shagging is a stress reliever, and I practice it regularly. No problem mentioning it. You should try it.I've been thinking about you today, trying to brainstorm ideas that might help. Being housebound isn't ideal—what can you do to get out more? Are you staying indoors because of noise outside, or has it become a habit, driven by fear or routine? Both are difficult cycles to break, but spending time outdoors is crucial for your health, rehabilitation, mood, and spirit.
If noise is the issue, try getting up before sunrise. Drink some water, do some stretches or arm lifts to get the blood flowing, and eat a bit of raw garlic before having tea or coffee. Head out early, while it's still quiet, and stay out for about an hour. Later, find a spot to sit in the sun for 10 to 15 minutes.
If you're dealing with physical limitations that make this difficult, tailor the plan to your needs. Start simple and gradually build up. Even sitting in the sun in a wheelchair can be beneficial.
I don't like the thought of you being stuck inside, and it breaks my heart. Focus on what you can control.
Noise can be a real challenge, but distractions can help your mind temporarily forget it. Painting, sculpting in clay, or chatting with friends are great ways to keep busy.
Don't forget to take your hot baths with candles, and if possible, try a sauna or steam room—they're even better.
Let's work on breaking the depression. Your recovery is important to me and everyone around you.
What do you want to do? What do you enjoy? What do you think might help?
And please, don't mention shagging @ZFire—he's too far away and might already be spoken for.
Love you, @tpj. I'm here to help.
Hang in there, @tpj. We all go through bad phases. I'm on a spike myself now -- since the landlord served notice to quitBloody hell @Daniel Lion! Okay... no mention of shagging @ZFire. Got it, lol!!!
Daniel, I truly appreciate your care and concern for me. I just need time to grieve the loss of my old life.
Yes, I'm mostly inside because of noise. As bad as my tinnitus is, I think the hyperacusis is worse. If it wasn't for that, maybe I could still live a somewhat normal life. I'll keep your suggestions in mind, though.
Thank you @Bob3382 and @Jcb for your messages. It's good to see you again @Jcb.
Love you, @Daniel Lion. I'm so happy you're doing well. Please, don't worry about me. I just need some time.
I'm sorry to hear about your doctor's visit. I hope it is treatable.@Daniel Lion, seeing how you have always been a dear friend and supportive during my tinnitus struggle, I thought you should know about my recent doctor's appointment.
Three weeks ago, I had a colonoscopy, during which the specialist discovered what he called a "sinister polyp."
Today, I was informed that the polyp is actually a cancerous tumor. I've been referred to one of the top cancer hospitals in the country. I remain hopeful and will stay positive.
—Elmer
Thank you. I received a call from the cancer hospital yesterday. In three weeks, I will go in for an MRI and a CT scan to check if the cancer has spread to any other areas. After that, I'll begin chemo and radiation to shrink the tumor, followed by a meeting with the doctors who will perform the surgery. The hospital is rated among the top three in the country.I'm sorry to hear about your doctor's visit. I hope it is treatable.
Wow, big news.@Daniel Lion, seeing how you have always been a dear friend and supportive during my tinnitus struggle, I thought you should know about my recent doctor's appointment.
Three weeks ago, I had a colonoscopy, during which the specialist discovered what he called a "sinister polyp."
Today, I was informed that the polyp is actually a cancerous tumor. I've been referred to one of the top cancer hospitals in the country. I remain hopeful and will stay positive.
—Elmer
What sparked your interest in retiring to Ireland from the United States? Had you been there before? I ask because I've always wanted to visit Europe, but I haven't yet crossed the ocean. I hope you're having a blessed day.I am a retired American living in Ireland.
I'm praying for you right now, if that's okay.I'm at the hospital, waiting for my first appointment for an MRI and CT scan. I'll be back on Thursday to get the results.
Of course, that's a personal experience.I'm praying for you right now, if that's okay.
Good luck, E. I'm rooting for you.We'll get the results by Thursday when we go back in to see the surgeon.
Results?We'll get the results by Thursday when we go back in to see the surgeon. That was more fun than taking your clothes off.
—Elmer
Yes, I got the results. The cancer hasn't spread in the colon. The doctor did an exam to locate the tumor, and it turned out to be further up than he initially thought, which is good news—at least I won't need a colostomy bag.Results?
Even if the treatment is going to be a real grind, it sounds like you managed to catch it early, which is great news.Yes, I got the results. The cancer hasn't spread in the colon. The doctor did an exam to locate the tumor, and it turned out to be further up than he initially thought, which is good news—at least I won't need a colostomy bag.
There won't be any surgery, but I'll have five weeks of daily radiation, followed by six sessions of chemo every two weeks, stretching the treatment into spring of next year. If the cancer is eliminated, there will still be five more years of monitoring to make sure it doesn't come back.
The cost of traveling every day alone is going to drain the pockets, but thankfully, we drive a hybrid car.
Elmer
Truth be known, it was Mrs. Elmer who caught it. When the diarrhoea started, she knew something wasn't right. How true that was. My rock, my best friend always there. Love her dearly.Even if the treatment is going to be a real grind, it sounds like you managed to catch it early, which is great news.
You have a good one there, Elma. My thoughts are with you both. You got this, mateTruth be known, it was Mrs. Elmer who caught it. When the diarrhoea started, she knew something wasn't right. How true that was. My rock, my best friend always there. Love her dearly.
Thanks. Yesterday, I had a consultation with the oncologist. The best news is that the cancer is curable. The hardest part will be the chemo pills, which need to be taken twice daily during radiation treatment. This will last for 5 weeks, followed by 6 sessions of chemotherapy over 12 weeks.You have a good one there, Elma. My thoughts are with you both. You got this, mate