So how long after this incident did it take for the pain hyperacusis to appear?
I was in the store about 15 minutes. As I was driving home I began to have pain in my jaw and tingling. It was elevated for a few days. Then it subsided a lot.
I went from being able to watch TV and listen to music to suddenly not being able to tolerate them without starting pain cycles. All three of my kids have iPads, it's virtually impossible to avoid being around artificial sound in my household as at least one of them are always on an iPad or television. I wasn't wearing protection at this point. Just trying to tolerate and avoid.
Then I kept trying to see if I could watch TV yet like every couple days to a week or listen to a little music and each time it felt like it had more and more of an impact. I'd try to hang around my kids and play with them without protection and that wasn't helping either.
I was just an idiot. I kept putting myself into situations that previously I was tolerating well thinking this would blow over quick because even my two month long setbacks previously were more so sensitivity to sound where my ears would jump and maybe some mild pain at that point.
Unfortunately, whatever happened at the record store was a different kind of irritation, injury, or whatever you want to call it, that I just wasn't familiar with addressing. And of course everything you read conflicts. Do protect, don't protect, blah blah blah, it's such a fine line.
I mean driving wasn't bothering me so I wasn't protecting driving. But then I need to protect any time I'm around my kids or near an iPad even if I'm not in direct aim of it's speaker. I don't use cell phones anymore so I figured keeping a reasonable distance from my kids when they watched and things would be fine.
I just handled it all wrong and now I don't know what to do. I understand I need to build my tolerance back up, but 12 hours of pain from 30 minutes of exposure I don't know what to do.
Today I started a journal and I'm trying to do about 5 minutes with the earmuffs off every hour in a quieter area of my townhouse and document how my ears feel.
I just started. It's just such an uncertainty. Like the first hour after the five minutes I put my earmuffs back on and noticed no change really. Then the next hour I did another 5 minutes and I noticed my ears tightening up and starting to get a little warm feeling. Then I put the earmuffs back on and I didn't have any major pain, but I definitely did have some pain periodically for the next 30 minutes and my sensitivity was heightened. I'm currently wearing Peltor X5A and I noticed even through them the sound of my children's voice was making my ears ache mildly and thumping sounds on stairs and things did the same.
I may hold off an hour and then try again giving myself a little more time. I certainly don't want to protect 24/7. Just that the other night I went to sleep with no protection and within two hours woke up in pain. I laid there for a bit and the pain continued to build so I put in earplugs.
Last night I did 27NRR musician's style earplugs and at first they seemed fine upstairs. So I went downstairs and spoke to my kids for a minute, then warmed some food in the microwave. I ate fast. So I was down there like fifteen minutes. In total in those earplugs for 30 minutes including being upstairs and then I had like 11 hours of pain last night starting at 10:15 pm till 9 am.
I'm really not trying to overreact and I'm not trying to be nervous about sound. I want to hear the sound. I don't feel phonophobic towards it when I'm hearing it. I've experienced phonophobia after I got tinnitus & hyperacusis and I overcame it. This just doesn't feel the same.
Just to add, I also got a pretty bad flu a few weeks after the record store incident and I took my booster shot for COVID-19. I can't say for certain whether either of those played a part in the decline.
The flu definitely felt like it did a number on my ears. The booster not really. My 2nd shot however definitely gave me quite a setback. So who knows.