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>Is the sound of the motor bad ?

It gets loud in a car on a highway.

On a city street, I found trucks and motorcycles accelerating and sirens of police cars and ambulances to be the main problem.
 
Isn't driving with your ears plugged quite dangerous ?
I believe I can still hear vehicle horns when I wear all of that protection. What else might I not hear? I am a little concerned about getting stopped by the police for it (Peltor muffs are very visible). Right now I am doing everything I can to protect my ears.
 
I think I would hear people's voices too. Plugs and muffs make sounds less loud, but you still hear pretty much everything.
 
I fell asleep for a few minutes, and when i woke up, fully back like yesterday.
The despair after my few hours of hope make it difficult to bear again.
 
I fell asleep for a few minutes, and when i woke up, fully back like yesterday.
The despair after my few hours of hope make it difficult to bear again.

If I may so Flobo. The best thing that you can do for your ears is to do nothing. I have had tinnitus for 21 years so have a lot of experience. Please do not waste money going to see ENT specialists at this time it isn't necessary. Please read my article in the link that I gave you . All the information is there that you need. You can get some helpful advice from members in this forum but don't waste money seeing more doctors. Buy yourself a "sound machine" I have mentioned this in my article and use that by your bedside. Try to avoid quiet rooms and surroundings especially at night. And I strongly advise you not to use headphones even at low volume.

Hope this helps
Michael
 
If I may so Flobo. The best thing that you can do for your ears is to do nothing. I have had tinnitus for 21 years so have a lot of experience. Please do not waste money going to see ENT specialists at this time it isn't necessary. Please read my article in the link that I gave you . All the information is there that you need. You can get some helpful advice from members in this forum but don't waste money seeing more doctors. Buy yourself a "sound machine" I have mentioned this in my article and use that by your bedside. Try to avoid quiet rooms and surroundings especially at night. And I strongly advise you not to use headphones even at low volume.

Hope this helps
Michael
I have to admit i started to read your article yesterday, but as you went to describe the inside of the ear, it scared me for some reason, so i stopped.

I went in full "he's going to tell me exactly what i broke down and can't be fixed, i don't even want to know" and closed the page even more terrified.

i'll give it another go right now.
 
I have to admit i started to read your article yesterday, but as you went to describe the inside of the ear, it scared me for some reason, so i stopped so i'll give it another go right now.
@flobo that is just to give people a basic understanding of the ear. There is nothing to frighten anyone in that article I assure you. It is written by someone (which is me) that suffered noise trauma same as you. I have written it to give people hope and a positive outlook to tinnitus and treatments available. There is nothing to be scared of but I understand your concerns. If you would like it in PDF format with a picture of the ear showing details, then send me your email address. It is much better if you print it. I also suggest you read: Hyperacusis, As I see it. That often accompanies tinnitus which is sensitivity to sounds. That is also available in PDF

Best of luck
Michael
 
@flobo that is just to give people a basic understanding of the ear. There is nothing to frighten anyone in that article I assure you. It is written by someone (which is me) that suffered noise trauma same as you. I have written it to give people hope and a positive outlook to tinnitus and treatments available. There is nothing to be scared of but I understand your concerns. If you would like it in PDF format with a picture of the ear showing details, then send me your email address. It is much better if you print it. I also suggest you read: Hyperacusis, As I see it. That often accompanies tinnitus which is sensitivity to sounds. That is also available in PDF

Best of luck
Michael
I know it's a lot to ask, but would it be possible to speak to you directly ? (I just read the first article fully).
I've noticed you're on pretty much the same timezone just the other side of the channel just west of me.

I feel a need to talk and i'm already annoying my family. "it's in your head, don't think about it and wait".
 
I know it's a lot to ask, but would it be possible to speak to you directly ? (I just read the first article fully).
I've noticed you're on pretty much the same timezone just the other side of the channel just west of me.
I feel a need to talk and i'm already annoying my family. "it's in your head, don't think about it and wait".

Unfortunately not possible to speak with me directly @flobo Tinnitus in the early stages is very troublesome and at times frightening. Your GP can prescribe you something to help settle any anxiety that you may have caused by the tinnitus. It will calm down but this takes time. The information in my article will help get you through this. Also, support from members in this forum can be very good. As I said before: Please do not spend money on going to ENT specialists at this time because it's not necessary. If you were having dizziness, pain in your ears or balance problems then that would be different. However, leave things as they are for now because you have already seen ENT doctors.

Things will get easier for you with time believe me.
Michael

Please read the post below, it its titled: New to tinnitus what to do.

New to tinnitus what to do?

The onset of loud intrusive tinnitus can be very traumatic for most people. I use the words loud and intrusive, because tinnitus comes in many forms and intensities. When it is mild, moderate or occasionally heard in quiet surroundings it is usually not too bothersome and a person can go about their daily affairs quite happily and unperturbed by this anomaly. This type of tinnitus usually comes on gradually and in some cases it's associated with hearing loss, as we get older and the usual treatment is the wearing of hearing aid/s.

Tinnitus can be caused by other things: an underlining medical problem, build up of ear wax (cerumen). Jaw problems. Some medications and even irregular blood flow through the body causing Pulsatile tinnitus. There are a plethora of other conditions that can be responsible. However, the most common cause is exposure to loud noise or music that has been played at high levels causing some damage to the cochlear in the inner ear.

This type of tinnitus can be loud, intrusive and very debilitating. Often leaving a person at a loss and not knowing which way to turn to escape the nightmare that has suddenly come upon them. Your Dr has probably told you, it's tinnitus and nothing can be done, you'll just have to learn to live with it. I remember those words as if it were yesterday resonating through my mind and thinking, live with this for the rest of my life, impossible. So I fully understand how difficult it can be for someone new to this condition to take this in and believe it to be factual.

If you are having difficulty sleeping you might have been advised to try a night time sedation or an ant-depressant to help cope with the stress and anxiety that often accompanies tinnitus. These medications can be helpful especially in the early stages and they don't have to be taken long term, so it's something to consider. They can act as a safety net so you don't become too down.

A referral to ENT will usually be recommended. In the mean time try to keep occupied with something you like doing, as it helps to distract the brain from focusing on the tinnitus. Avoiding quiet rooms during the day by playing low level non intrusive music such as classical in the background can be helpful.

At night a sound machine placed by the bedside playing nature sounds or listening to favourite mp3 tracks or Cds are good. Keeping the volume just below the tinnitus is ideal and set to play throughout the night until morning. It takes time to get used to sound therapy so please stay with it. Whilst in a deep sleep it supplies the brain and auditory system with sound enrichment. Over time the tinnitus is pushed further into the background helping to make its perception less noticeable during waking hours.

In the early stages of tinnitus, if one chooses not to use sound enrichment sleeping can sometimes be difficult and there's also the chance of the tinnitus becoming more intrusive as sleeping in a quiet room can allow the brain to increase it's own background activity. In doing so it will also increase the tinnitus making it more intrusive during waking hours.

There is a tendency for newbies to try and cure their tinnitus which is quite understandable. There are many remedies, treatments and concoctions out there. Some affordable others quite expensive. I am not adverse to trying to help myself but want to say, there are charlatans and con artists eager to relieve someone in distress of their money so please be careful. Even tried and tested treatments I wouldn't recommend a person try until they have been seen at ENT. Often a person after been seen at ENT is advised to wait a while.

The reason being. Many people habituate to tinnitus within six months sometimes a little longer and it has been known to go away. The ear is a very delicate organ and many Drs prefer to wait before investigating further and then suggesting a treatment. If other problems are experienced such as: pain in the ears, deafness, dizziness or balance problems this is of more concern and a person will usually been seen quicker.

It is best to have a word with your GP if you're feeling stressed or depressed in any way, as previously mentioned there are treatments available. Leaving things alone until ENT advise you of the next step is the best thing to do in my opinion. Don't try to fix anything or throw large sums of money at treatments that you have no way of knowing whether you'll get any relief.

It is not advisable to listen to audio through headphones even at low volume and keep away from loud sounds. By all means go out but anywhere that plays loud music then wear noise reducing earplugs.
Take things slowly and one day at a time. Read some of the positivity threads and ask other members for advice. Many people eventually habituate to their tinnitus and go on to lead a happy and fulfilling life even though it may take a little time.

Michael
 
Do you think i can try to watch last week's Doctor Who episode or any tv shows to take my mind of everything.

I haven't yet because i've been scared of watching anything that can be too noisy.

EDIT : But i do have balance problem, i hear better in the left hear than in the right one since that day, and i have a very slight pain in my hears at times.
 
Do you think i can try to watch last week's Doctor Who episode or any tv shows to take my mind of everything.
I haven't yet because i've been scared of watching anything that can be too noisy.

Hyperacusis (sensitivity to sound) often accompanies tinnitus. If certain sounds are making you sensitive to sound or it seems painful, then this could be hyperacusis. It will calm down in time. Read my article: Hyperacusis, As I see it. Try to carry on doing things that you enjoy. Watch TV do anything to help take your mind off the tinnitus. Remember what I said: Try not to sleep in a quiet room. Buy a "sound machine" preferably: Sound Oasis model: S-650 is popular. Google Sound Oasis .
Michael
 
Do you think i can try to watch last week's Doctor Who episode or any tv shows to take my mind of everything.
This is what I did - I watched TV shows episode after episode. Make sure to keep the volume low (better not hear something than have the sound of a gun shot give you a temporary spike). It is also possible to change the sound settings on your computer or TV to keep all sounds in a given range (make quiet sounds louder, and loud sounds quieter), and to make voices easier to hear.

You should expect your T to keep coming back to how it was before. It would be a miracle if it were to stop overnight. Hopefully you will experience improvement in a couple of months.
 
Thank you all, just came home from the medical clinic for an audio test.

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The guy told me it was good enough but my T is probably outside those frequencies and there was not much else to be done now but wait and calm down (but he rushed me out of the door much more quickly than i liked, someone stressed out like me want to talk and to be understood.
He quickly suggested hypnosis.

This is what I did - I watched TV shows episode after episode. Make sure to keep the volume low (better not hear something than have the sound of a gun shot give you a temporary spike). It is also possible to change the sound settings on your computer or TV to keep all sounds in a given range (make quiet sounds louder, and loud sounds quieter), and to make voices easier to hear.

You should expect your T to keep coming back to how it was before. It would be a miracle if it were to stop overnight. Hopefully you will experience improvement in a couple of months.
I always watch shows on my computer, any idea how to set this up (link to a general guide or something like this).

Thank you again, everyone.
 

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Thank you for the explanation.

You, and another person sent me a private message.

Either i'm stupid or there's NO answer button anywhere on the private conversation page.

You asked me in private how i'm doing. Well i guess all things considered, i should feel lucky. My T must not be that annoying since simply when using my laptop in a fully silent room, the fan covers it so i can't hear it for now.

But still, it terrifies me. As soon as i woke up 10 minutes ago, i heard it and my heart rate jumped, i became agitated again and i'm still shaken right now in my bed even though i can hardly ear it since i turned my pc back on.

I'd love to answer you more in private once i find the answer button.

Also, i think i've got the beginning of a cold and i'm terrified about this as well. Since nose is connected to hears, i'm terrified it's gonna make my T permanently worst when it's (for me) bad enough.

I'm having difficulty with sounds as well. Some loud sounds seems to heart just a little bit, so i'm almost to the point of running away with my hear closed anytime i hear a loud sound. I'm terrified of making my T permanently worst that way as well.

In the opposite way, i'm terrified of silence as well since i can't hear anything but the T.

Also, i keep having random 10 seconds T in my left hear as well but it always stop so far.

I'm terrified it's going to one day / hour not stop so i keep having panic attacks.

I have an hard enough time living with a mild one.

(A week since the incident today, how much i wish i could redo that day and change things).
 
Try reloading the Conversation window. If that doesn't work, try using a different browser.
There should be a field into which you can type your comment.
Well i guess all things considered, i should feel lucky. My T must not be that annoying since simply when using my laptop in a fully silent room,
If it is this quiet only one week in, I think there is a good chance that it will get even quieter over the coming months or even weeks.

Also, i keep having random 10 seconds T in my left hear as well but it always stop so far.
How often do you get this? If it is just a couple of times each day, then this is what people on this forum refer to as "fleeting tinnitus". It is normal - most tinnitus sufferers experience it. And of course the natural first reaction is to worry that it will not go away. I haven't read any messages posted by anyone for who it never went away.

Even healthy people sometimes hear fleeting tinnitus. Of course tinnitus sufferers get it a lot more often. Someone on this forum said that they think it is their brain trying to recalibrate and to get rid of tinnitus. I like this way of thinking about it - it is hopefully the sound that is the result of my body trying to heal itself.

Also, i think i've got the beginning of a cold and i'm terrified about this as well. Since nose is connected to hears, i'm terrified it's gonna make my T permanently worst when it's (for me) bad enough.

It is not a good thing to be happening, but you probably shouldn't worry too much about it. People's tinnitus worsens after an ear infection or after a chronic problem with sinuses. I haven't read any reports of it worsening following a simple cold.
 
Or perhaps there is a problem with your profile settings. There should be a "quote" button below my private message, and I am not seeing it in your image.

Click on your username at the top of the page, and look at your privacy settings and other settings...
 
Or perhaps there is a problem with your profile settings. There should be a "quote" button below my private message, and I am not seeing it in your image.

Click on your username at the top of the page, and look at your privacy settings and other settings...
My account seems to have an issue. Most pages seems not to load because i'm "not logged" when i am .

Thanks again for your help.

Another huge worry for me is something more complicated.

It's way too long to properly explain here, but you see, i used to hate myself for a very long time (from teens to mid-20s at least) and i was a complete shut in always at home except school / college, with no social life, trying to burry myself into computers & internet to forget real life.

I hated my life, i truly did.

At 25, i started to meet people and have social interactions with them, baby steps, but last year, i met this Londoner girl online. She's become my greatest friend. The way i think about it is that she teaches me life. I go see her once in a while and we go out, shopping, walking, laughing, she shows me nice places about London, we drink a cup of coffe at Starbucks, we eat at some place,...
It probably doesn't sound like much but it's what i cling to in life to cope those days.

I feel like those few days are the only truly happy one i have ever had in my 29 years.
I talk a lot to her too, and well, recently, i was starting to consider not living my life alone, to try and meet someone.

I'm afraid of not being able to continue visiting her due to the sounds being too loud in a big city (or the tube for exemple, or the pression difference in the channel tunnel between france and the UK).
If i can't continue to see her, i'm afraid i'll go right back to being a shut-in, and i don't think i can cope with that anymore, not after i've finally started to taste real life.
 
My account seems to have an issue. Most pages seems not to load because i'm "not logged" when i am .
I sent a message to @Steve , who is one of the people running this site. Hopefully he will be able to help.
I'm afraid of not being able to continue visiting her due to the sounds being too loud in a big city (or the tube for exemple, or the pression difference in the channel tunnel between france and the UK).
I think it makes sense to protect your ears (to the point of avoiding the noise of a London tube even while wearing earplugs) for a month or two. It is the summer, and surely the two of you could meet at a park outside of London.

This is inconvenient, but I don't think you need to worry Too much about it.
 
HELP. I thought i had it BAD already but i was wrong. It started ringing on the other side as well, and like a dog's whistle.
I don't know what to do, i feel like i want to go check myself in the hospital and put under morphine so that i feel nothing anymore.
 
HELP. I thought i had it BAD already but i was wrong. It started ringing on the other side as well, and like a dog's whistle.
I don't know what to do, i feel like i want to go check myself in the hospital and put under morphine so that i feel nothing anymore.
Tinnitus can change a lot in the early stages. There will be times that it will seem more intrusive than others. Try to keep calm I know it's not easy. Buy the "sound machine" as I've suggested. See you GP/family doctor for something to help you relax so you don't get too stressed. It will get better...
 
Just when i feel i was starting to accept life with the "little T", i was trying to force myself to get back to my normal routine, i had managed to eat at noon and now this happens.

It's hard, so hard.
 
Just when i feel i was starting to accept life with the "little T", i was trying to force myself to get back to my normal routine, i had managed to eat at noon and now this happens.

It's hard, so hard.

Tinnitus is not a walk in the park when it is severe. I have had this condtion for many years and so have many other people in this forum. It will get easier. Follow my suggestions in the article and read some of the posts from members in the Positivity threads. You must not Force yourself too hard, because it won't help you. Speak to your GP and get something to help you relax. Things will get better but it take time. Have low level music playing in the background to help you not focus in the tinnitus.
Michael
 
@orbiter12 If you ever get your ears microsuctioned or irrigated at the GP surgery. Use olive oil eardrops 3 times a day for 7 to 10 days before the procedure.
Michael

One thing I've used in the past to remove earwax is a squirt bottle full of warm water and a small amount of salt. I would turn my head to one side and spray it into the ear repeatedly. I found this to be effective. I cannot say whether this is safer than suctioning.
 
What I've come to know about tinnitus is that it can be reversed for most people if you act fast. Pay attention to your body and load yourself up with natural fruit, vegetables and anti anti inflammatory foods. Avoid MSG and other food additives. Drink a lot of water and avoid caffeinated drinks.

This is always good advice. Your body is a whole, interdependent system. And the antioxidants in fruits and vegetables can help protect the ears from trauma following excessive noise exposure.
 
This is always good advice. Your body is a whole, interdependent system. And the antioxidants in fruits and vegetables can help protect the ears from trauma following excessive noise exposure.
Thanks for the ideas, everyone, i'll do my best to follow them, especially the fruits idea, i'm not usually one forfruits.

I had a few times of 1-2 hours of sleep this night with my PC as background noise.

At some point, the pc went to sleep and i didn't realise it (i was still awake, about half an hour ago).

When i saw it, something went through my body. Not relief, not yet, a mix of hope and fear of gettings my hopes up about nothing. I couldn't find my T.

After 2 minute, i heard it again but it seemed very low, especially comparing to what it was last afternoon.
I'm not healed, my ears still hurt and i still feel half deaf all the time. It's way too soon.

I don't know if it really stopped for a moment. Maybe, maybe not, maybe it was all in my mind.

I'm a person who always focalise on the negative parts of life, sadly, and i always have a hard time seeing the good out of a situation but that's a good sign, right.

EDIT : I feel like it's louder but i'm not sure. And I feel my heart beating though my ears now, i don't know. I'll take the stress medication the doctor gave me.
 
I'm a person who always focalise on the negative parts of life,

Focusing on negative things in your life is something you have to try and change if you want to move on with tinnitus. Please believe me because I'm right. Ask anyone that has had tinnitus for a while and habituated and they will tell you the same thing. This doesn't mean you mustn't ever feel negative, just try not to make it consume you. Please read the post below to get my meaning. I advise you to print it and keep it close to you. Whenever you feel tinnitus has got the better of you and you're feeling down, read it .


Positivity And Tinnitus

For some people prolonged intrusive tinnitus can be very stressful and at times debilitating. This can sometimes lead to depression and a person may need to go on a course of antidepressants. I have often been asked in tinnitus forums and via email "It is great if you're able to be positive, but simply telling someone to be more positive about tinnitus isn't going to change anything". I want to clarify here and now, that isn't what I mean.

Thinking more positive about tinnitus and bringing positivity into your life takes time it isn't achieved overnight or by simply thinking to yourself "I must be positive about my life".

If a person wants to improve the quality of their life they have to be prepared to try and help themselves, because there is no wonder drug or operation that can cure tinnitus at this time. Unless a person faces these facts they will forever be trawling the Internet going from forum to forum complaining why there is no treatment for tinnitus when actually many of these people want a complete cure.

I once read a newspaper article that mentioned: nineteen out of twenty medical conditions cannot be cured. Someone once told me "I don't want to be positive about tinnitus, I hate it. Being positive wont make it go away". This is true, however, thinking more positive and bringing positivity into your life will reduce the perception on how you relate to tinnitus. CBT and TRT are based on having a positive attitude, without that these treatments aren't effective.

Long before CBT, TRT and the Internet came on the scene Doctors have been telling tinnitus patients, there's no cure you'll have to learn to live with it. Most of us know this is easier said than done.

So how does one start to think more positive about their tinnitus and to bring positivity into their life?

The fact that someone with tinnitus is reading this page suggests to me their tinnitus for today at least isn't so intrusive that they are unable to function, for that I'm pleased because this is something positive, instead of lying in bed on medication doing nothing. If you are able to work that's even better as your tinnitus isn't so severe you're incapacitated. I see this as something positive in a person's life. Being able to earn a living and support yourself. Therefore, you're able to do all the daily tasks one needs to survive in this world. You may have some difficulty granted, but you're still achieving and that's progress.

It is still better than someone that is visually impaired or severely disabled and unable to earn a living. Or, people with severe tinnitus that are depressed and on medication and unable to work. So by looking at our own circumstances and seeing what we're able to do and achieve we can think more positively about ourselves. There is nothing more satisfying than being independent and I suggest you hold onto those thoughts.

If you live by yourself consider getting a cat or a dog so your home environment won't feel so lonely. If you have a partner and family think about spending some quality time with them, as this can help reinforce your sense of belonging, and the love that binds you together, then your T won't make you feel so isolated. Sometimes opening up sharing your thoughts and how you feel can help immensely and keep negativity at bay.

I have just given a synopsis of what I believe can help a person's quality of life improve with positive thinking. It doesn't happen overnight but a lot can be achieved when one is prepared to try. By moving forwards and taking one day at a time you can occasionally look back and see how far you have come.

Michael
 

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