Thanks, @stickywicket after thinking, I decided to call the prosthodontist. He said he was on vacation for a week and that if I were to come back in, he'd have to do a full dental exam on me to get this done (after he was going to do this on my consent the other day? huh?) He then told me that my prior dentist should be skilled enough to make this adjustment. Something tells me he does not want to deal with me, so I'm going back to my normal dentist to talk about the bite adjustment and mention to go ahead and grind down the crowns and if a hole is put in it, then I'll consider new crowns (which I may do anyway). What a pain this has been!