I don't think it's possible to damage your auditory nerve through noise unless it's a physical impact or something that sends a shockwave. At least there doesn't seem to be any studies really mentioning that, only the haircells.
I can hear up to 16KHz (probably even higher before the accident), but I do know I got hearing damage, especially around 8-10KHz range. Do the pure tone sweep and you will probably notice some damage if you can hear tone 6000KHz, but not the tone 6001KHz.
That's not correct. Age causes changes in the composition of auditory and vestibular nerves over time indeed this would seem to be the case for all the cranial nerves possibly with the exception of olfaction, NASA funded work into this a long time ago, they showed that the nerve health peaks at puberty and then begins to change slowly over time, theoretically these changes interfere with action potential conduction quality/clarity, add onto that some pathogens and HC damage and you have a setup for a hearing loss. Schuknecht also examined this sort of things in cat models over many years, bashing them over the head and inspecting the distinct types of cochear damage that resulted. The real issue is the amount, the amount of noise is just too much for modern human ears. Its an industrial issue, I have read that people who live near airports can have lower scores on basic cognitive tasks than age matched controls who live in the more sedate areas, others refute this data, it is quite frightening. It is put much more eloquently below.
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