I find it curious that my opinions are of such great importance to you, when your opinions are of such little importance to me to me. Why this fascination with what I have to say?
On the contrary, your opinions are not of
great importance to me and I have no problem whatsoever with you having them. But I think what you are really asking me (neglecting the tone of the offended party) is why I have felt compelled to argue with you in this thread. That is a complicated question, but I'll take a shot at it since you asked.
First, I'm going to state my formal qualifications to offer an opinion since you apparently make much of such things. I started my university education in science subjects, so I know a little about how that works. But I then moved into humanistic psychology and psychotherapy, critical theory and philosophy. I am a doctor too in those worlds. I have taught on university courses and have been published in the field of ethics. In those areas of inquiry, intellectual rigour tends to be evidenced by
how you argue. So while your field might involve looking at scientific studies, mine involves looking at how texts and arguments work and understanding what goes on behind them (assumptions, psychology, etc.).
So let me say that there are ways of conducting a discussion that respect the intelligence and the decency of the person or persons that you are discussing with. And, of course, there are other ways – ways that I have seen used repeatedly by yourself (and occasionally others) in debating against LLLT both on this forum and to an even greater extent on the Yuku forum. They involve bluff, bluster and belligerence. They involve subtly twisting the things that people say to turn those things against them and score points – without a care for how this makes them feel. They are ugly and callous: the arts of the political spin doctor rather than the seeker after truth. Having spent many hours reading through these threads when researching LLLT I began to become personally offended on behalf of the people who did not share
your opinion, and who were treated as idiots. Just one relatively minor example: the ridiculous Nobel Prize argument that you now claim was 'tongue-in-cheek' but which was used repeatedly to obstruct meaningful discussion.
For a short while this lapsed. Some new contributors came along who had tried the treatment and experienced benefits. They shared their experiences and points of view in a generous fashion. They were not sycophantic to Dr Wilden since some doubts and some criticism of him was offered alongside the reports of benefits. The thread became more interesting and interest in the thread picked up… which inevitably meant that the battles had to begin again.
I suggested splitting this debate thread off from the support thread because of the fear that your voice would intimidate or drown out those who were reporting their experiences and that they would drift away. Ask yourself why a newish member to the forum (someone who came here to share and to help people) would write things like this:
Please, I do not want to see any comment from Dr. Nagler.
Not answering the troll again.
I never intended to get involved in the 'debate' at all. But I saw holes in what you were saying and I asked you a simple question. And it must have touched a nerve because you proceeded to throw your toys out of the pram in much the same fashion as you did yesterday.
So by then I was involved – and like you I find it hard to walk away. I tried my best to argue rationally and respectfully. Indeed, I made very real efforts to be friendly about it so as not to upset your ego again. I really don't want to spoil anyone's day. But you made no such efforts, so of course my frustration grew. Look at the effort and thought that ATEOS must have put into this post:
Now look at how you responded. You effectively told him that his time was worthless to you. How do you think that makes him feel? Imagine it again and again.
After a while all this gets too much. It gets under a person's skin. Yesterday I was weak and I was tempted to the dark side. I settled for scoring cheap points the way that you do instead of aiming for rational discussion. By then I saw that rational discussion was futile. I am not proud of what I did (slightly ashamed if I am honest) since I reduced myself in the process. But you know what? I showed you how it feels.
Here is the punchline:
I don't even have a strong opinion about how well LLLT works. My best guess is that it helps a few folks quite a lot and most folks a bit or not at all. Much like TRT probably does. Only a guess. But there's one thing that I know for sure
doesn't work – and that is how you argue. It proves nothing and it makes people feel like s***.
You do some great work in the doctor's corner and are an asset to the forum in many ways. This post took me some time to write. Please do not lose any sleep over it, but please do think about it rather than just giving me a trite come back and feeling pleased with yourself. I took this trouble because I've been an a**hole many times in my own life, and because I trust and I hope that (like I try to be) you are a man who has the capacity to care about others and to grow.
Dr. dboy.