Elmer B Fuddled
Member
- Feb 11, 2019
- 1,329
- Tinnitus Since
- 2017
- Cause of Tinnitus
- plugged nasal eustachian tube
You have taken the words out of my mouth. I've read most posts on MPP and there's a lot of disrespect posted from JohnAdams. Is it ego or is it because this person can't truly deal with his tinnitus and is lashing at everyone to feel that he knows all?Most here don't know me, I was an active member a while ago. I like to check in but I usually don't get involved in any of the threads. I felt I had to for this.
I have always had great experiences with @Markku on here. When I was still active on here we had a fair share of issues and drama, but because of Markku they were always dealt with fairly. He does what he does because of his heart. He cares about people very genuinely and that is obvious in his posts. There's about 10 times more bullshit for him to deal with.
His character is evidenced by his mountains of work. He stands on tens of thousands of hours working on Tinnitus Talk, because he cares about people, because he is one of those who used the fire in him in the right way. There was nothing like Tinnitus Talk when I first got tinnitus. Tinnitus Talk literally saved my life. I've seen first hand in group and team chats with Markku how clever he is. Any critique of his intellect or character is absurd.
@JohnAdams, you don't make an attempt to justify any of the claims made. I see you took some medical action in regards to tinnitus and I applaud you for that. I went for a clinical trial so I know how scary it is. I can also see your fire and passion. Let's just be sure a goal is actually being accomplished.
I'm seeing comments about people being uncomfortable posting because of the aggressive nature of some posts.
NO ONE SHOULD BE AFRAID OF POSTING HERE. So to whoever may be contributing to that, maybe self reflection is needed. I know things get contentious between people who believe you can habituate and those who believe you cannot. Both have a valid reason for coming to this place to try and connect with others who understand. I think this is the major point to get across to members on here. Sometimes you forget the other side is an actual human.
"Beware that, when fighting monsters, you yourself do not become a monster... for when you gaze long into the abyss. The abyss gazes also into you."
-Friedrich W. Nietzsche-
Whatever fire this struggle sparked in you is only useful when targeted correctly. Otherwise its nature is to consume everything in until there's nothing left to destroy, and then finally burn out itself. Because if that's the case you are hurting people who are as scared and lost as you are. Fire can be powerful and effectuate great change when used as a tool.
"Truth is false in the mouths of certain people even when objectively true."
-Kierkegaard-
Well you don't, we are all in the same ship, some may be better at habituating, some can't deal with it. That doesn't give this person the right to disrespect anyone on this forum. If you can't piss on the porch with the big dogs go lie in the field.