Tinnitus No Longer an Issue After About 6 Months

DaveG

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May 17, 2022
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03/2022
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Hello all,

I wanted to share my experience in case it helps others. I started experiencing tinnitus about three years ago, and after six to nine months, it became almost a non-issue. I still hear it 24/7, but I can go weeks without even remembering I have it—only noticing when someone asks me how it's going, and I think, "Oh yeah, there it is."

In the first three months, I was nearly losing my mind trying to figure out why this happened to me. I searched for every possible cure, went online, visited an ENT, had my head scanned, and used various noises in my earphones to mask the sound. During this time, I was constantly talking about my tinnitus with others, thinking about it, and researching solutions. That was the problem.

When we keep telling ourselves we have an issue, like a sleep problem, for example, it can actually make it worse. Why? Because by all these actions and thoughts, we are telling our brain it is a serious problem, and so it magnifies it. The constant anxiety about it keeps the issue at the forefront.

Eventually, I decided to stop thinking about it, stop talking about it, and just get on with my life. That was it. I went back to doing everything I used to do, including going to concerts, though now I wear earplugs more often.

Our brains are incredibly adaptable. Once it knows you do not care and you are saying, "Yeah, whatever," it starts to filter it out, just like with eye floaters. I had not thought about my floaters in months, but if I focus on them, they are still there.

So, while I still have tinnitus 24/7, I can choose not to let it bother me. Here is my suggestion: once you have confirmed there is nothing medically wrong, stop searching for solutions, stop thinking about it, stop talking about it, and just live your life as you did before tinnitus. Try it for at least 30 days and see if there is a difference. The key is to truly let it go. If it comes to mind, just think, "Yeah, whatever."

This approach worked for me. To sum up, the constant searching, thinking, and talking about tinnitus often makes it worse because it reinforces the brain's focus on it. Letting it go helps your brain shift its focus to other things, like your life goals.

It is worth a try—it worked for me. I will also mention that the OTO tinnitus app helped me transition to this mindset. I used it for three to six months, and now I do not rely on it or any other aids. I highly recommend it for those looking for a temporary audio-guided transition method. (I do not work for the company or get anything for saying this—just offering a helpful tip.)

Dave
 
Thank you so much for this post. I actually saved it and kept reading it during the first few weeks when my unilateral tinnitus became anxiety provoking. I felt completely lost, hopeless, and on the verge of falling into depression. Your post gave me hope that living with tinnitus is manageable and that it gets better.

I kept telling myself that I could overcome this, that it was a mindset thing, and that if I just went about my day and refused to give it the power to bring me down, I would persevere and have a chance to live a normal life. I believe this is what has kept me from falling into depression or having a panic attack, even though I am very prone to both.

The less stressed you are, both about tinnitus and in general, the less you will notice it, and in turn, the less impact it will have on you. I look forward to continuing to practice this in the days, weeks, or however long I have this.
 
Congrats!

I'm currently struggling massively to cope after a new spike, either from COVID-19 or the flu. I'm a month in now and terrified. This is life changing. My previous tinnitus was bad enough, but this is pushing me close to the edge—it's a total nasty rollercoaster ride.

I hope it either goes back to baseline or I get used to it. I wish we could get Paxlovid or anti-flu tablets in the UK. I might have been able to nip this in the bud before going through all the inflammation.
 
Hello all,

I wanted to share my experience in case it helps others. I started experiencing tinnitus about three years ago, and after six to nine months, it became almost a non-issue. I still hear it 24/7, but I can go weeks without even remembering I have it—only noticing when someone asks me how it's going, and I think, "Oh yeah, there it is."

In the first three months, I was nearly losing my mind trying to figure out why this happened to me. I searched for every possible cure, went online, visited an ENT, had my head scanned, and used various noises in my earphones to mask the sound. During this time, I was constantly talking about my tinnitus with others, thinking about it, and researching solutions. That was the problem.

When we keep telling ourselves we have an issue, like a sleep problem, for example, it can actually make it worse. Why? Because by all these actions and thoughts, we are telling our brain it is a serious problem, and so it magnifies it. The constant anxiety about it keeps the issue at the forefront.

Eventually, I decided to stop thinking about it, stop talking about it, and just get on with my life. That was it. I went back to doing everything I used to do, including going to concerts, though now I wear earplugs more often.

Our brains are incredibly adaptable. Once it knows you do not care and you are saying, "Yeah, whatever," it starts to filter it out, just like with eye floaters. I had not thought about my floaters in months, but if I focus on them, they are still there.

So, while I still have tinnitus 24/7, I can choose not to let it bother me. Here is my suggestion: once you have confirmed there is nothing medically wrong, stop searching for solutions, stop thinking about it, stop talking about it, and just live your life as you did before tinnitus. Try it for at least 30 days and see if there is a difference. The key is to truly let it go. If it comes to mind, just think, "Yeah, whatever."

This approach worked for me. To sum up, the constant searching, thinking, and talking about tinnitus often makes it worse because it reinforces the brain's focus on it. Letting it go helps your brain shift its focus to other things, like your life goals.

It is worth a try—it worked for me. I will also mention that the OTO tinnitus app helped me transition to this mindset. I used it for three to six months, and now I do not rely on it or any other aids. I highly recommend it for those looking for a temporary audio-guided transition method. (I do not work for the company or get anything for saying this—just offering a helpful tip.)

Dave
@DaveG, can I ask if you took any medications, like antidepressants, to help with anxiety and lack of sleep?
 

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