I'm not closely related to this person. I never met this person. Because my wife talked about my problem to her friend she told her about her brother in law. But she didn't know how severe his problem was, it also came to her as a shock. I was actually interested to meet the guy to talk about his and my problem because as you probably experienced yourself, not a lot of people have a clue what you are going through having T and H. But actually i was a bit uncertain because i fucked up my ears myself playing music, for him it was caused accidently. What i know is that he was 53 yo and has T as a child (14yo) caused by an accident with a bycicle. He was treated with divices (my wife thinks) and he must have been good because he became a teacher. Strange choice if you ask me but i don't know for how long he has been a teacher. I also know he and his wife didn't have any children because of his T and H.
I also find it strange that this happened so quickly. Of course this is not positive news but every person copes with this differently. His H must have been very severe apparently.
I can live with the T but the H really sucks, it controls your whole live. Luckely i work at home in my own office (small company) but i also have a passive income, i could even quit my job, but all you can do is life like a hermit.
My H also became really bad in a single year, but i still have hope for recovery, because it did previously. You can find many cases where it did online. I'm 52 and still have many plans, i like to design, create and build stuff, i hope these plans don't all fall apart.