Hi Neenie,
Shop around till you find someone who is committed to helping you find answers and solutions that work for you.
Yes Neenie, differing opinions. That is always going to be the case when we consult multiple practioners. However, in my case, when discussing my diagnosis and prognosis, the wording was quite different between practioners; though both angling at the same endpoint. t is going to be permanent because of hearing loss was my take home message. (ie audiologist said 'you have t and hearing loss. live with it.' another said ' because of your hearing loss, t has probably always been there unnoticed till you've suffered an ear infection, that has raised your brains awareness of the t. as you start to learn to ignore the sound, your t will recede into the background again, and you will wont notice it anymore.')
I saw a reputable Australian audiologist who implied that my t wouldn't just 'go away', that it will fade into the background, where it probably always resided since the hearing loss, so that I am no longer bothered/aware of the noise. (habituation) To me, being unaware of the noise is as good as a cure
I am getting good results (= more relaxed, less bothered by t, sleeping better, cognitively less dysfunctional, quieter t) with hypnotherapy. I have revisited this therapy as I have always found it very helpful managing anxiety and chronic stress. It turns out my hypnotherapist has t herself, and has used her therapy to successfully desensitize herself to t. I always go to the appointments wondering how the hell I am going to relax into the session, but I always manage to, and after a half hour of therapy, my t is very quiet and I feel profoundly relaxed. I would give that a go if I were you.
Mindfulness makes a lot of sense to me. Most people with t try to run away from their noise (me included). It doesn't take long to realise that is virtually impossible, and for me, the more I try to not hear it, the more intrusive it seems. I am still reading about this, so I cant intelligently comment it on this further, but wanted to mention it to you as a possible bridge to healing.
Like you Neenie, I want to trial the sound therapies. Let me know how you get on with the neuromonics. There is another Australian based company in Perth that provides sound therapy. They claim their therapy is different to neuromonics in that it helps with brain remapping, whereas as neuromonics simply masks the noise. I am a little (a lot) confused at this point, so am seeing an audiologist who will discuss my options.
keep in touch hun
don't give up XXX